In my opinion, this is really true.  In my opinion life is not always full of rainbows. sunshine, colours and musics.  Most of the times it is also fills with rain, thunderstorm, black and white and even sutnami

Well, the truth is that all the roadblocks, hurdles and challenges are how we can grow.  Because all the challenges, roadblocks and hurdles are truthfully our opportunities to learn and grow.  It is the opportunity to become what we want to be.  If everything is so great in our life then we will never learn, never able to grow and most probably forget our roots, where we came from.

Let me share with you a story about  a little boy who overcome all the challenges, hurdles and roadblocks and became a great man.  At the age of 7, his teacher always pointed out about his unusually broad forehead and saying that his head was considerably larger than average.  His teacher believed that this hyperactive youngster had a brain that was “addled” or scrambled.

He also had a poor hearing and because of the negative treatments he received from his teacher, his mother who believed that her son was intelligent withdrew him from school.  Due to this he only had 3 months of formal education.

However he loved reading and he loved asking questions.  He was exposed to history and english literature and was very interested in Shakespear’s plays that he briefly considered himself to become an actor.  However because of his high-pitched voice and extreme shyness in front of audiences he soon gave up his idea.

His parents especially his mother believed in his ability when nobody else did.  They introduced him to the use of library to appease his voracious appetite to knowledge.  He became interested in Science and very into Newton’s theory.

As he grew up, he developed a strong sense of perseverance, readily expending whatever amount of perspiration needed to overcome challenges. 

He was once being struck by a train conductor due to an accident that caused a baggage car to catch a fire.  This may had add to the hearing loss that he already inherited and from later from a scarlet fever.  By the time he was 14 years old, it  was  virtually impossible for him to acquire knowledge in a typical educational setting. Amazingly,  however, he never seemed to fret a whole lot over the matter. Naturally inclined towards accepting his fate in life – and promptly  adapting to whatever he was convinced was out of his control -he always reacted by committing  himself to compensating via  alternative methods….

ltimately, he  became totally deaf in his left ear, and approximately 80% deaf in his right ear.

To make his story short, he encountered a lot of disappointments, rejections and failures, challenges and roadblocks.  He even been in deeply debt and almost being fired from his job.

But he never gave up.  He was Thomas Edison who invented the first commercially practical incandescent electric light bulb.

You can read more about him in his biography and books about his life and inventions.

What I am trying to say and even to remind myself is that to become successful is not easy.  Challenges, roadblocks and hurdles are part of life and makes path towards success much interesting

They are there to make sure that we never forget our roots when we are at the top.

Hope to see you soon, till next time

Take care.  

Hope you are doing well. 

It has been a busy month and finally today I have the opportunity to write.

Before I write further, I want to ask you a question.  What is success to you?

Is success means making millions of dollars?

Is success means becoming rich?

Is success means owning multi-millions businesses?

Is success means raising healthy and happy children?

Is success means that you have a successful career?

Or is success means that you are happy with what you are doing and are happy with your life?

In my opinion different people would have different opinion about success.  Some people would consider themselves as successful when they earn millions of dollars or have their own successful businesses.  Some people would consider themselves as successful when their children are happy and successful themselves while others consider themselves as successful when they are able to help as many people as they can.

So you see… Different people have different definition on success and there is no right and wrong answers.

What’s may seems successful to me, may not seem successful to you and vice versa.

However whatever definition and opinion you have about success, one thing that we have in common is that when you and I want to achieve whatever success we want; we need to work for it.

We need to have determination, persistance, believe in ourselves and overcome any challenges and obstacles until we achieve the success that we have been dreaming about.  We need to be focus and not let our eyes off our goals until the day we successfully achieve it.

Therefore no matter whats success means to you, you have to do all you can to achieve that success.

Like what Vince Lombardi said, “The price of success is hard work, dedication to the job at hand and the determination that whether we win or lose, we have applied the best of ourselves to the task at hand.”

Recently I had the opportunity to attend a seminar in Singapore where I met people from all over the world and most of them are people from all around Asia. 

My new friends from all over the world

These people are successful in their own ways.  Some of them are successful parents, directors, managers, trainers, sales persons, husbands and even wifes.  All of them are working their very best in the things that they believe in and are good at what they are doing.

All of them have a number of things in common:

1.  Believe in themselves.

2. Determination.

3. Persistence.

4. Doing the best that they can.

5. Good heart.

And they all come from different part of this world.

So you see, you can be anywhere in this world but when you want to be successful, you will need to have the same attitude as anyone in any part of the world that already are successful.

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Talk to you soon.

Until then… take care.

Khadijah

How are you today?  Hope you are doing fine and happy.

A few weeks ago I had the opportunity to work by the seaside – just a few feet away from where I was sitting though I didn’t have the opportunity to swim due to chemical bla…bla..bla… but I managed to appreciate the beauty of God creation.

I was sitting directly in front of a window that looked out to the open sea.  It was one of a spectacular view sought of like watching the blue ocean from a plasma tv  

Unfortunately I didn’t bring my camera or else you would be able to view the same spectacular view that I saw today instead of just listening to my description and try to imagine it in you head.

The sea was beautifully blue and green and everything was so calm.  There was a breeze of wind and the sky was perfectly blue.

That was when I started thinking about why some people put-off starting their own business whether it is online or offline though deep down in their heart they want their own business.  The most important thing that makes them give-up even before they start.

Selecting the right niche…

Don’t give me that look :-0

You know that is one of the reason why you got stuck isn’t it?

It may seems simple but truthfully it can be difficult. 

Selecting the right niche is as important as planning your business when you want to start your business.

I discussed this in great length in my e-Book 15 Secrets of Making Money with Positive Personality Revealed.

When you start thinking of building your own business, you will also start to think about what you should sell? 

For some people this is an easy part because they already know what they want but for some it is not as easy.

For those who feel that it is not as easy, here are some guidelines for you:

1.  Select something that you are very interested and passionate about.  Why???

Because when you are going into a business, this is not for one or todays.  It is going to be for a very long time; maybe your lifetime.  So when you are really interested and passionate about it, you will stand by it in no matter what the circumstances.

Hey! It is not going to always be easy

For example you are very interested and passionate about baking cakes.  So even when in the beginning nobody is buying your cakes, you are still interested and passionate about it.  You will not give-up or discourage in the process of achieving your dreams.

2.  Select ‘The Niche’

It may not be enough to select just the niche that you are interested and passionate about but also things that people want at the right time. 

For example you are interested and passionate about baking biscuits but at that time nobody is interested about biscuits.  So my suggestion is to hold on to that thought and find something else to sell first. At the same time search the market to find out where and when people will be interested i.e. during specific occasioon etc.

Like I said earlier, if you are interested and passionate about your product you will  find a way to make it work in no matter what circumstances and conditions.

I elaborated in great length about niches in my e-Book.

So go to http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com to learn more about selecting niches. 

There is also 7 days free course for you there that will help you to start your business

So I think that’s it for today.

For more information, read my 15 Secrets of Making Money with Positive Personality Revealed.

See you soon

Your partner towards your success,

Khadijah

How are you?  Hope you are doing well

As for me, I am doing great though a bit exhausted :-0

I will be travelling again next week and this time it will be for a whole (until my birthday, that is )

So I will not be able to talk to you the whole of next week.  I will be back the week after next week.

For those who had been writing to me, I apologize for taking some times to reply your emails.  To those that have not receive my replies, I hope that you will be patient.  I am a bit slow in replying but I will reply, that’s my promise.  Things are a bit hectic around here especially now as I am involve in a commercial job and everything   I guess I have to find a mastermind soon…

Anyway this is not what I want to talk about today.

As promise, today I want to talk about the number two key to successes and riches.

It is Sound Physical Health.

I could hear some of you saying, what!!!  Physical Health???

Does she knows what she is talking about?

To answer that question, yes I do…

Think of it this way, if you have all the riches in this world; all the gold and diamonds and money but you are always sick and have to stay in bed all day and night, would all the riches mean anything to you.  Ok, you might say that you have all the money so you can pay for the best doctor to cure you.  However what if this best doctor does not know what’s wrong with you.  This doctor’s solution is to cut you to see what is wrong inside of you.  Would you want to do that?  Do you want to be reach with scars all over your body?

I don’t think so…

So as you are working towards your successes and riches, you must also work to take care of you health. 

Eat healthy and do exercise.  Take great care of your body.  You only have one body…  No money in this world would be able to make another body for you.

One way to stay healthy is to eat moderately.  Researches had shown that unhealthiness starts from the stomach.  So eat whatever you body needs instead of eating everything your heart desire…

There’s also a saying that say, “Eat when you are hungry and stop before you are full.” 

However most of us keep on eating even after we are full

So take great care of your body so that you are healthy and able to enjoy the successes and reaches that you achieve.

Ok… With that I am going to stop here.

See you again the week after next week.

In the mean time, remember to read my 15 Secrets of Making Money with Positve Personality Revealed

or

Go to my website at http://www.amazingwriting.com to get more information about handwriting analysis.

You can also join me in facebook or twitter.  I will soon include the links here.

So… See you soon.

Stay happy and healthy.

Your partner towards your success,

Khadijah

It had been a hectic weeks for me and I had been running around from one place to another these past few weeks :-0

I believe these will continue for the next few months…  Well, that’s my news

How about you? How is your new year resolution?  Your goals?  Have you started to take actions?  I hope you have.  It is already March, meaning that we are already three months into year 2010.  So if you have not took any actions yet, well now is the time to do it. 

Do not wait any longer!  There’s only 9 and 1/2 months left to complete your 2010 resolution.  Come on!  Get up and start doing something.

Today I want to talk about the key to successes and riches.  Why successful and rich people become successful and rich?  What are the things that these people do that make them successful and rich.

1. A positive mental attitude

Have you ever heard a saying, “Watch your thought, they will become the words you say.  Watch your words, they will become the actions you take.” 

Well, I don’t exactly remember the exact words but more or less these are what the saying means.

Everything that you want to do or not do, everything that you want say or not say begins from your mind. 

When you want to go somewhere for example to the mall or meet somebody, you must have think about it first.
“Oh! I want to buy some new clothes so I have to go to the mall.” Or “I need help so I need to see this and this person.”

Same goes with achieving success.  You must have in your mind about the success you are going to achieve.  You must have the believe of achieving your goals and dreams.  You know that you are going to achieve your goals and dreams then only you will take the actions and make them happen.

If you don’t believe that you are going to successfully achieve your goals or your dreams, would you make any effort and taking actions to achieve them?  I don’t think so…

You may try to do something once but when it doesn’t happen as what you expected, you will stop and let your dream or goal dies.

So from now on start to have positive mental attitude.  If you want to achieve something, start to believe and tell yourself you can achieve it; it may not take one two days but in the end you will achieve your dream.

I also know that it will not be easy to always have positive thoughts.  One way or another negative thoughts will try to creep in.  So from now on if you start having negative thoughts of now able to achieve your goals or just any negative thoughts, say to yourself, “I cancel this negative thought.”  And start smiling (or even force yourself to smile) and say, “I am a positive person. Today is the best day of my life and I am going to achieve my goals.”

Like Napoleon Hill said, “Whatever the mind conceive and believe, it can achieve.”

Ok… That’s it for today.

Stay tune for Key to Successes and Riches no. 2.

By the way have you read my book? 15 Secret of Making Money with Positive Personality Revealed?

Or go to my website at http://www.amazingwriting.com to learn more about handwriting analysis.

Until next post

Smile always.

Your partner towards your success,

Khadijah

My last post was on 8th February 2010 and it had been almost 3 weeks before I got the chance to write something today

I had been travelling these past few weeks and I am going to travel again tomorrow.

I must start to think about having a team as what I discussed before :-0

Well, the truth is I already started to form some kind of mastermind group.  These people are the one promoting my trainings now.  So currently I am leaving to these people to do what they are good at… doing marketing and I doing what I am good at, talking to people, do presentations and inspiring people

So the next thing I need to think about is having a team for my internet marketing…

You see when you surround yourself with experts, people who are good at what they are doing; your life becomes easier and you will start achieving what you want to achieve.

Because nobody is actually good at doing everything themselves.  It’s good to know what you want others to do for you but doing the real job, you got to leave it to the experts.

All successful people had some kind of mastermind group.  It does not have to be a big group; two people can also form a mastermind group.  So it is not that difficult…isn’t it?

So take the actions now!  If you need to form a group to help you be successful then do it, what are you waiting for.  But one thing you must remember is that if you want people to help you be successful, you must also be ready to help these people be successful too.   So that everyone can become successful

So if you want to be successful start taking actions.  Do what you already plan to do; don’t just stop at planning stage ok, keep moving.  There will be a lot of obstacles and challenges of course but never ever give-up.

And remember I am here to help you

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Ok… I think that’s it for today.  I need to pack now.

See you soon

Your partner towards your success,

Khadijah

Some of them even wanted to give-up or already given up and there are many of them who become discourage.  A lot of them that came to me and said “My dreams are worthless, there is no point to carry on.” or “Life is not fair, why everybody else find an easy way while I have to go through a hard way.”

Well, the truth is achieving dreams is never an easy path.  There will always be obstacles, challenges and roadblocks.  Because if the path you are going through is so easy it may not be a dream that is worth pursuing. 

Why???

Because these obstacles, challenges and roadblocks are the things that make us grow.  These are the things that that teach us about life, teach us to be someone better.  These are the things that remind us of our roots, where we come from when we are at the top.  These are the things that remind us to help others to be at the top with us.  These are the things that give us strengths even when we are already successful because there are always challenges even when we are already at the top.

There is a saying that goes, “Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength.” – Mathama Gandhi.

So to those who came to me and said that they are giving up because they encounter with to many rejections, they are fed-up being rejected,  what I say is, “Reject rejection.”  Think of it this way, there must be a good reason why it happens.  Maybe the boss is not as good as you see him externally, maybe the job is not the best as it seems to be, maybe you are going to create a better product that will make your a millionaire because of these rejections or maybe this is the turning point for you to take better steps. 

And remember this, when the time comes that something that you want, will want you.  So never ever give-up.

Someday you will build success.

If you want me to talk more about building success here or to your event or to your people, you can contact me here or through my email at kinetic_0102@yahoo.com or any of my other emails.

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Till next time, take good care of yourself and stay positive.

Your partner towards your success,

Khadijah

It is a beautiful monday afternoon and I hope that everybody is doing well.

I was supposed to write last week but suddenly out of no where both my hands developed rashes. It was just itched at first and when I began to scratch it turned red and developed something like mosquito bites.

I went to the doctor last week and she said it was nothing, it may had been something I ate that I was allergic to.  I wonder what it was as I ate normal food that I always eat and I never develop any allergy to anything before. 

In the end I concluded that there must be something that I normally eat but this time I ate more than the usual portion that cause the allergy to developed.   Nice conclusion huh!  I don’t want to create any headache thinking about it

Well, how am I now?  The itchiness almost gone maybe due to the medicine I am taking but the rashes are still there though not as bright red as before.  I had to cancel my trip and a few appointments because I didn’t want to scratch like mad in front of people and the medicine that I am taking makes me feel really drowsy.  I could just drop to sleep even while I am talking  :-)

Well, that was just me developing self-consciousness and procrastination…  Even for a person who teach people about self-esteem, self-confidence and all the positive personality, I could sometimes develop negative personality too.  I am only human … but once I realized what I was doing I bounced back into actions.  So at last I kept the important appointment and explained to the other appointment and able to postpone them.  Luckily people understand.

You see, the most important thing that differentiate whether we are going to be successful or not is ourselves.  What is our habits and attitude especially when face with challenges.

When face with challenges some people just back-out and give-up whatever they are working for to achieve their goals.  Some people procrastinate waiting for some miracle or luck to happen so that they could achieve success.  Have you ever heard the saying, “Luck is actually something we create.”?

 However for those who have persistence, determination and focusing on their goals, they will do everything it takes to achieve their goals.   Like what I said to someone just the other day, “There are always challenges when we want to achieve success.  Therefore to be successful, we need to be flexible.  We need to be able to go around, over or under the challenges we are facing if we are not able to go through it.  Then only we can achieve our goals”

So it is important to really understand your personality, your habits or your attitude. 

For example, you may not realize that you are the kind of person that likes to procrastinate doing something and yet you are always wondering why you never achieve your goals or any success.  By understanding that you have procrastination habit, you can eliminate the habit and start to achieve success in everything you do.

One of the way to understand your personality and understand the negative habits that you have is through your handwriting.

If you want to know more about handwriting analysis, you can visit my website at http://www.amazingwriting.com

Or read my eBook “15 Secrets of Making Money with Positive Personality Revealed”

 You will be able to understand yourself better and will achieve success along the way.

Got to go now.  My rashes have started to itch  :-0

See you soon.

Take care.

Your partner towards your success,

Khadijah

How are you today?  Hope that you are happy

Last week I was in Singapore for 3 days attending a seminar.  It was a very intensive seminar where it started at 9:00 a.m. and ended at 11:00 p.m.

Wow! I was so exhausted! 

Though it had been a tiring three days…  It had been a very informative three days and I met a lot of new friends.  Some of them are establish trainers, best selling authors, business men, managers, students and even millionaires

In the 3 days, I had conversations with quite a number of people.   During these conversations I found there were a lot of different opinions.  For example, some of them did find these three days seminar a waste of time and money as although there had been a lot of information given; there were also a lot of promotional for the organizer’s other products.  I had to agree with that, I even able to identify when the promotional begun and at what time :-0

There were also people who said that there were too many dancing and clapping instead of information.

There were also people who said that they learned a lot in these three days seminar and able to get great bargains in purchasing other of the organizer’s products.

There are even people who found their soulmate during these three days

You see what I am trying to say? Same place, same environment, same time, same situation but different acceptance.

All these people were sitting in the same convention center, at the same time, listening and seeing the same thing.  However each and everyone of them accepted what had been delivered differently and formed their own opinions. Some liked it and some don’t.

It is the same with our goals.  Most of us have the same goals such as becoming successful in our career, make a lot of money, become a millionaire, become financially abundance, famous etc.

However not all of us are achieving our goals. Some people are only dreaming of these goals and these goals become dreams that never become realities.

Why do these happen?  Because

1. Don’t know what to do to achieve the goals

2. Never take any actions

3. Give-up when encounter with challenges

4. Not determine enough to achieve the goals set

5. Fear of failure

6. Fear of too much work

7. And many more other excuses…

These are some of the excuses that separate losers from achievers.

Achievers do not give excuses why they could not achieve their goals, they give excuses of why they will achieve their goals.  If the achievers see that what they are doing are not moving them towards their goals, instead of complaining and giving excuses; they find different ways to make things work.  They also keep saying positive things to motivate themselves to move forward.

So which groups are you in?  Only you have the answer

So I leave you today with that question.

And if your answer is you are an achiever but you don’t know what to do.  Contact me, I will help you get started.

By the way, my product “15 secrets of Making Money with Positive Personality Revealed” can help you get started.

In there, I show you how to get started and how to develop positive personality that will support you in achieving your goals.

Until next time.

Your partner towards your success,

Khadijah