Hope you all are doing great today.

As for me, I am feeling really great

Just celebrated my birthday this month a day to remember.

Received a bouquet of roses too

Roses for my birthday

 Anyway… That is not what I want to talk about today.

Remember in February I wrote a post about Thomas Edison…  Well, I received some comments from a very good friend of mine.

He said that what I wrote there was not me… He said that normally when I wrote something there was an umph, something that felt like it was from me, from my heart, something unique.  But in that post it was like somebody else was writing instead of me…  

And when I read back what I wrote, I realised that he was right.  It was like I was writing for the sake of writing not truly something from my heart.  It was truly not me.  I was trying to copy someone else styles of writing and it didn’t reflect me at all

It made me realised that you can never be somebody else in whatever you do.  Not even in writing.

When you do something it must come fully from your heart, not half-hearted, not quarter hearted.  It must be in full; so that the result will be satisfying to you and everyone else.  Only then it will reflect who you are.

When you do something with your whole heart, you will give your best effort, your best idea, the best of you to make it work.  And when what you are working for works, the satisfaction can never be described. 

Even if it doesn’t work, you will still feel satisfy as you already put your very best in it.  There would not be any “If only I do this better”, “If only I think of this differently”, “If only this and that…..”  There will be no if only…  You will only think, “Ok… I have done my best but it doesn’t work so I better take the next step.” 

No brooding, no thinking of what if….   Because if you carry on to brood, you would never achieve anything and it is also not very good for your heart.

Talking about the heart do you know that helping others is good for your heart physically and spiritually .  I can guarantee that when you help others, do something for others, the feeling of satisfaction can never be replace by anything else.  But wanting to help others must come from the heart; remember that you want to help others because you want to help them not because you want to get praises or something in return or rewards or seeing your face in the newspapers. 

You want to help others because you want to see them develop and become a better people, you want to see the smiles in their faces and you want to see them helping others in return.  If that what you have in mind then helping others will actual helps you instead.  It will help you to become a better person instead and it would be better for your heart too because you are feeling happy and satisfy. 

So you see helping others will help you as a whole, making you a better person physically, mentally and physically

Therefore whatever you want to do, do it from your heart.  The result will be able to warm your heart, make you satisfy and it would also be your great gift to others.

And I would also like to thank my friend for making me realise that.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

See you all next time.

Take care…

In my opinion, this is really true.  In my opinion life is not always full of rainbows. sunshine, colours and musics.  Most of the times it is also fills with rain, thunderstorm, black and white and even sutnami

Well, the truth is that all the roadblocks, hurdles and challenges are how we can grow.  Because all the challenges, roadblocks and hurdles are truthfully our opportunities to learn and grow.  It is the opportunity to become what we want to be.  If everything is so great in our life then we will never learn, never able to grow and most probably forget our roots, where we came from.

Let me share with you a story about  a little boy who overcome all the challenges, hurdles and roadblocks and became a great man.  At the age of 7, his teacher always pointed out about his unusually broad forehead and saying that his head was considerably larger than average.  His teacher believed that this hyperactive youngster had a brain that was “addled” or scrambled.

He also had a poor hearing and because of the negative treatments he received from his teacher, his mother who believed that her son was intelligent withdrew him from school.  Due to this he only had 3 months of formal education.

However he loved reading and he loved asking questions.  He was exposed to history and english literature and was very interested in Shakespear’s plays that he briefly considered himself to become an actor.  However because of his high-pitched voice and extreme shyness in front of audiences he soon gave up his idea.

His parents especially his mother believed in his ability when nobody else did.  They introduced him to the use of library to appease his voracious appetite to knowledge.  He became interested in Science and very into Newton’s theory.

As he grew up, he developed a strong sense of perseverance, readily expending whatever amount of perspiration needed to overcome challenges. 

He was once being struck by a train conductor due to an accident that caused a baggage car to catch a fire.  This may had add to the hearing loss that he already inherited and from later from a scarlet fever.  By the time he was 14 years old, it  was  virtually impossible for him to acquire knowledge in a typical educational setting. Amazingly,  however, he never seemed to fret a whole lot over the matter. Naturally inclined towards accepting his fate in life – and promptly  adapting to whatever he was convinced was out of his control -he always reacted by committing  himself to compensating via  alternative methods….

ltimately, he  became totally deaf in his left ear, and approximately 80% deaf in his right ear.

To make his story short, he encountered a lot of disappointments, rejections and failures, challenges and roadblocks.  He even been in deeply debt and almost being fired from his job.

But he never gave up.  He was Thomas Edison who invented the first commercially practical incandescent electric light bulb.

You can read more about him in his biography and books about his life and inventions.

What I am trying to say and even to remind myself is that to become successful is not easy.  Challenges, roadblocks and hurdles are part of life and makes path towards success much interesting

They are there to make sure that we never forget our roots when we are at the top.

Hope to see you soon, till next time

Take care.  

Some of them asked me why?, there were also those who said that I was daring enough to venture into an unknown horizon; a 180 degree different from my trained profession and there were also people who bluntly said I was not thinking straight, it was a waste of time.

There were times after that especially during difficult times that I too wondered whether what they said was true and whether I had made the right decision.

Until today, there are still people who are trying to talk me out of pursing my dream and even said that my dream is a worthless dream.  They said that my dream is not going to bring a lot of money or my dream is not going to make me a happy person or my dream is not going anywhere or what I am doing is not the best for me and they actually know what best for me :-(

Well, I called these people a dream killer.  They don’t actually know what they are talking about or they are a failure because they may once had a dream before and on their first or second attempts failed and after that they never tried again.  And the worst this is that they believe that if they failed in their first and second attempts, everybody else who has dreams will fail too.  What make things worst are that they suddenly thought that they are the expert on dreams and they know what best for everybody else.

My advice to you is that just ignore what they said and even better try to spend time or associate with them less.  Because if keeping spending your time with them, one day you may start to believe what they said, begin to think that your dream is a worthless dream and forget about it.

You see, the person who knows you best, the person who knows your capabilities and the person who knows what best for you beside Allah, is yourself.  Some people who are very close to you like your parents may understand your capabilities by the only person who knows you best is yourself

And if you believe that you can achieve your dream, you will be able to achieve it.  Of course it would be best to have the people around you especially your love ones to believe in your dream too.  It will help a lot and make things easier for you.

I am not saying that when you have a dream, you believe it and it would come easily to you.  I am saying that if you believe in yourself and your love ones; people around you believe it too, things would be easier.

Because when you have a dream, a goal; there is no straight road to achieve it.  There will always be roadblocks, challenges, detour, hurdles, many disappointments and failures before you can be successfully achieve your dream.  This is where the believes and supports of your love ones are very important.  These believes and supports can keep you moving and help you up when you fall.

However the believes and supports of your love ones would not be enough unless you believe in yourself and take actions to move towards your dream.

That’s why one of my favourite quotes is by Napoleon Hill “Whatever the mind conceive and believe, it can achieve.”

I admit that sometimes your dream and what you believe in may not be the best for you but if you never try, take action to achieve it; you will never know whether it is the best for you or not.  In the end if you never try, you will never know and keep wondering whether your dream is what best for you.  Like Publilius Syrus said, “No one knows what he can do until he tries.”

So if someone comes to you and said that your dream is worthless and they know what best for you, assess their statement, weigh what they said, take the good advises and throw away the rest and move on because in the end it is your life, you are the one who knows what best for you.

Look at history for example Alexandra Graham Bell, Thomas Edison or even Albert Eistein; no one believed them and some may think that they were wasting their time.  However because of their believe in their dreams, their persistence and determination and also the actions that they had taken, they changed the world. 

So believe in your dreams, be what you want to be not what others what you to be; things that will give you energy to move forward and you will be a happy person until the end of your life. 

Logan Pearsall Smith said, “There are two things to aim in life: first, to get what you want and after that to enjoy it.”

See you next time

Hope today has been a great day for you.  Hope that tomorrow, the day after tomorrow and days after that will be a great days for all of you.

That is how we should face our days… with positive attitude.  Because when we are positive everything that comes our way will be positive.  It is the law of attraction, alike attracts alike

If you start your day with hatred in your heart, negative attitude or even negative thinking; your whole day will be negative too.  Believe me… It will.  You will feel that you are a victim and the whole world is against you.

So start your day with a positive feeling.  Smile even if you do not feel you want to and you will make your day and others worthwhile

When you are positive, people who are following you will be positive too. When you are always angry, your followers or your subordinates will in the end do the same too. 

“People follow what they see not what they hear.”

Especially if you are a leader of your organization.  Being positive is much more crucial.

Wait! I can hear you saying that you are not the CEO of your organization.  Well, you don’t have to be a CEO or a manager to become a leader.  A leader can emerge at any level of the organization.  A simple definition of leadership is the ability to obtain followers. 

Therefore even if you are at the bottom level of your organization but you have followers or people who admire you then you are a leader.  And to become a good leader your need to develop good attitude.

It’s true that good attitudes alone may not be the asset that makes us a great leader but these good attitudes will help us reach our full potential.  These will differentiate us from those who have wrong or bad attitudes.

Like what Walt Emerson said “What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.”

One of the attitudes of a good leader is listening skill.  You need to teach yourself  to listen to people’s dreams, motivations, hopes, strengths and even weaknesses.  When you listen, you need to listen with your heart not only with your ears.  Your body language must shows that you are interested to listen to their stories. With this attitude, people will know that you care and then only they will follow you.

One simple trait in your handwriting that shows that you are a good listener is in the letter “e”.  I am not saying that this is the only trait but as an example I am showing you the simplest.

People who write their “e” like the above encourages others input and listen with an open mind

However you must also remember that other traits or attitudes you have may reduce this trait in you.  For example you may have this trait but you are also a stubborn person which will definitely reduce your good listening attitude.

Therefore the first step to become a good leader is, you must assess yourself, make the necessary changes for the better and people around you will follow to change for the better too.

Lets continue in my next post…

Take care and see you.

How are you?  Hope you are doing well

As for me, I am doing great though a bit exhausted :-0

I will be travelling again next week and this time it will be for a whole (until my birthday, that is )

So I will not be able to talk to you the whole of next week.  I will be back the week after next week.

For those who had been writing to me, I apologize for taking some times to reply your emails.  To those that have not receive my replies, I hope that you will be patient.  I am a bit slow in replying but I will reply, that’s my promise.  Things are a bit hectic around here especially now as I am involve in a commercial job and everything   I guess I have to find a mastermind soon…

Anyway this is not what I want to talk about today.

As promise, today I want to talk about the number two key to successes and riches.

It is Sound Physical Health.

I could hear some of you saying, what!!!  Physical Health???

Does she knows what she is talking about?

To answer that question, yes I do…

Think of it this way, if you have all the riches in this world; all the gold and diamonds and money but you are always sick and have to stay in bed all day and night, would all the riches mean anything to you.  Ok, you might say that you have all the money so you can pay for the best doctor to cure you.  However what if this best doctor does not know what’s wrong with you.  This doctor’s solution is to cut you to see what is wrong inside of you.  Would you want to do that?  Do you want to be reach with scars all over your body?

I don’t think so…

So as you are working towards your successes and riches, you must also work to take care of you health. 

Eat healthy and do exercise.  Take great care of your body.  You only have one body…  No money in this world would be able to make another body for you.

One way to stay healthy is to eat moderately.  Researches had shown that unhealthiness starts from the stomach.  So eat whatever you body needs instead of eating everything your heart desire…

There’s also a saying that say, “Eat when you are hungry and stop before you are full.” 

However most of us keep on eating even after we are full

So take great care of your body so that you are healthy and able to enjoy the successes and reaches that you achieve.

Ok… With that I am going to stop here.

See you again the week after next week.

In the mean time, remember to read my 15 Secrets of Making Money with Positve Personality Revealed

or

Go to my website at http://www.amazingwriting.com to get more information about handwriting analysis.

You can also join me in facebook or twitter.  I will soon include the links here.

So… See you soon.

Stay happy and healthy.

Your partner towards your success,

Khadijah

It had been a hectic weeks for me and I had been running around from one place to another these past few weeks :-0

I believe these will continue for the next few months…  Well, that’s my news

How about you? How is your new year resolution?  Your goals?  Have you started to take actions?  I hope you have.  It is already March, meaning that we are already three months into year 2010.  So if you have not took any actions yet, well now is the time to do it. 

Do not wait any longer!  There’s only 9 and 1/2 months left to complete your 2010 resolution.  Come on!  Get up and start doing something.

Today I want to talk about the key to successes and riches.  Why successful and rich people become successful and rich?  What are the things that these people do that make them successful and rich.

1. A positive mental attitude

Have you ever heard a saying, “Watch your thought, they will become the words you say.  Watch your words, they will become the actions you take.” 

Well, I don’t exactly remember the exact words but more or less these are what the saying means.

Everything that you want to do or not do, everything that you want say or not say begins from your mind. 

When you want to go somewhere for example to the mall or meet somebody, you must have think about it first.
“Oh! I want to buy some new clothes so I have to go to the mall.” Or “I need help so I need to see this and this person.”

Same goes with achieving success.  You must have in your mind about the success you are going to achieve.  You must have the believe of achieving your goals and dreams.  You know that you are going to achieve your goals and dreams then only you will take the actions and make them happen.

If you don’t believe that you are going to successfully achieve your goals or your dreams, would you make any effort and taking actions to achieve them?  I don’t think so…

You may try to do something once but when it doesn’t happen as what you expected, you will stop and let your dream or goal dies.

So from now on start to have positive mental attitude.  If you want to achieve something, start to believe and tell yourself you can achieve it; it may not take one two days but in the end you will achieve your dream.

I also know that it will not be easy to always have positive thoughts.  One way or another negative thoughts will try to creep in.  So from now on if you start having negative thoughts of now able to achieve your goals or just any negative thoughts, say to yourself, “I cancel this negative thought.”  And start smiling (or even force yourself to smile) and say, “I am a positive person. Today is the best day of my life and I am going to achieve my goals.”

Like Napoleon Hill said, “Whatever the mind conceive and believe, it can achieve.”

Ok… That’s it for today.

Stay tune for Key to Successes and Riches no. 2.

By the way have you read my book? 15 Secret of Making Money with Positive Personality Revealed?

Or go to my website at http://www.amazingwriting.com to learn more about handwriting analysis.

Until next post

Smile always.

Your partner towards your success,

Khadijah

Hope you are having a nice weekend…

So this post will be short and sweet. 

Remember not very long ago I talked about John Thornhill and his products.  I also recommended his product for example his 90 days PowerSeller that contained a lot of ebooks, tips and even how to be an eBay marketer

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or his monthly mentorship that only cost $10

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Well, today I am not going to talk about him …  The person that I am going to talk about today is someone else but this person had been mentioned by John Thornhill.

I look-up this person in the internet and I found that he is the owner of  Dotcomsecrets and I think by now you already know this person.

Yes, that’s right he is the internet marketing multi-millionaire Russell Brunson.

I am writing about him not to sell his products, well not yet

but want to tell you about the video he posted about “9 Tiny Steps To Go From 6 – 7 – 8 Figures a year online”

 Some of the products that he gives away is a free audio interview with Vince James (another internet marketing millionaire) that he did two years ago on how Vince James make $100,000,000 in 23 months. 

It is a one hour interview.

Yes, you hear me right… It is FREE.  So what are you waiting for?

So click here to download the audio 

And also he is giving away his report The IM-Myth Report: The 7 Steps to IM-Proof Your Business

Yes, you see it right.  It is Free.

So Click here to download the report

Don’t wait.  Download both of these give away NOW! As he is not giving this away for ever. 

This offer ends on 10th November 2009.

There are also other surprise give aways but I am not going to tell you

You have to find it out yourself.

So why wait.  Become an action taker.  Download these give aways NOW before it is too late :-0

Click here to find out more

or click here for more information

Other give-aways next time, so stay tune….

Your partner towards your success,

Khadijah

Hope you are doing great!!!  I am doing great too.  It has been two weeks into the fasting month and I am feeling healthier than ever

Normally in this blog, I talked about eBooks, my products and other self-growth subjects. 

However today in celebration of my new facelift website at http://www.amazingwriting.com I am going to talk about a simple way to build a website. 

By the way, be sure to watch out for my new product about building a website in more detail that is coming out soon

The first thing you need to have when you build a website is a header.  To me a header is important as it is going to tell your visitors what your website is all about.  

One look at the header and they will have a general idea about what your website is all about.

You could have a simple header or you could have a more sophisticated or even a fancy one. It is all up to you.  As for me, I like to have something simple but able to deliver the message across.

You could design the header yourself or pay other people to design it for you. 

There are a lot of website designers around; all you need to do is search for them. 

One tip to find a good website designer is to look at the works that they had done for their customers.  If the works that they had done match your taste and what you want then you could start to discuss and negotiate with them. 

It is advisable that you already have a general idea of what your website going to look like before you have the discussion with the website designer.  At least this way you can easily describe to the website designer what you want and you are be able to get the most value for your money.

I think someday I should start to offer website designing too  

Maybe I should start with designing the eBook cover first. Anyone want one? 

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If you good in designing and want to design the header yourself, I suggest you find a software such as photoshop, dreamweaver etc to design you header. 

Some people said that you can also do designing using microsoft word.  I am not sure as I never done that before. Maybe you can but in my opinion the result will not be as great as using a specific design software that will have specific designing features that microsoft word could not offer.

If you had use microsoft word to design your header and it came out great please let me know.  We can share it here with other people.

Until today, I never came across a free design software yet but if I find one, I will let you know in my next post

So now you want to design your header.  You may need some photos or just a photo or any graphic on the header.  There are a lot of websites selling photos, graphic out there, all you need to do is search for it.  There are also websites that offer free photos and graphic.  Maybe I’ll link them in my next post.

You can also create your own photos.  All you need is a digital camera and you are all set

If you do not have a digital camera but have a conventional camera; what you can do is take the photo and then scan it into your computer.

Or if you do not want to use photos, you could use other material or graphic to design your header.  Like what I did to my website header:

As you can see I use scans of handwriting samples plus some graphic.

In my opinion anyone can design a website.  What you need is imagination and creativity.  And of course believe in youself.

Ok… I think that’s it for today.  I will continue next time with more information about building your website.

In the mean time, remember to check-out my product that  will help you build a successful online business and positive personality.

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Until next time

Khadijah

It has been quite some times since I last wrote.  I know that I should have write sooner but I had been quite busy with lot of things. 

One of them was my website at http://www.amazingwriting.com . As you can see from the title of this post, it has a new face now.  So go to my website at http://www.amazingwriting.com NOW!

It is totally new look, totally different from the previous face;  new header (which I created myself), new concept, new background and a lot of new information :-) . 

In my opinion my new website face is more professional than before. 

Well, that is my opinion as I design it myself . 

Therefore I need to hear your opinion.  Why don’t you go there and see it for yourself.   Click the below to go to my website

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Go over there, see for yourself and if you have any comment on how I could improve further or even any question, please drop me an email or leave your comment here or at the feedback form at http://www.amazingwriting.com .

I will be waiting .

By the way, while you are there; grab the FREE e-report “Habits That Cause You To Fail” that talk about two negative habits that cause you to fail or not able to achieve your dreams.  Read the report, eliminate the two negative habits discussed in the report (if you have them) and you are taking the positive steps towards your success

I am also planning to write my experience designing my new website face so that you could use the information to design yours .  It is not that hard once you get the hang of it.  So stay tune.  I will annouce it as soon as it is ready.

In the meantime also have a lot at my eBook “15 Secrets of Making Money with Positive Personality Revealed“.  It is an eBook that talk about how to start building a successful online business.  It contains tips on the wrong things not to do, steps that you need to take to build a successful online business and positive habits that you need to have in order for you to be success in whatever you want to achieve in life; not just online business

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That’s it for tonight. 

And for all the muslims out there, have a great fasting month.

Talk to you all again soon.

Khadijah

Another quick one….

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Do you have problem finding your niche?

Do you have issue in creating your own information products

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2. If you don’t have any idea what your niche is, the 90 days PowerSeller will help you on finding the niche, what you need to do and the things that you can consider in deciding your niche.

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Till next time

Your Partner Towards Your Success,

Khadijah