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		<title>Be What You Want To Be &#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jan 2012 19:05:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khadijah Ibrahim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I first left my first 9:00  &#8211; 5:00  job to pursue my dream to become a writer, coach and trainer ; a lot of people thought that I was crazy for leaving a stable job Some of them asked me why?, there were also those who said that I was daring enough to venture into an [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I first left my first 9:00  &#8211; 5:00  job to pursue my dream to become a writer, coach and trainer ; a lot of people thought that I was crazy for leaving a stable job <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':-o' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><a title="My website" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-391" title="www.amazingwring.com" src="http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/ttt-program-250311c-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p>Some of them asked me why?, there were also those who said that I was daring enough to venture into an unknown horizon; a 180 degree different from my trained profession and there were also people who bluntly said I was not thinking straight, it was a waste of time.</p>
<p>There were times after that especially during difficult times that I too wondered whether what they said was true and whether I had made the right decision.</p>
<p>Until today, there are still people who are trying to talk me out of pursing my dream and even said that my dream is a worthless dream.  They said that my dream is not going to bring a lot of money or my dream is not going to make me a happy person or my dream is not going anywhere or what I am doing is not the best for me and they actually know what best for me :-(</p>
<p>Well, I called these people a dream killer.  They don&#8217;t actually know what they are talking about or they are a failure because they may once had a dream before and on their first or second attempts failed and after that they never tried again.  And the worst this is that they believe that if they failed in their first and second attempts, everybody else who has dreams will fail too.  What make things worst are that they suddenly thought that they are the expert on dreams and they know what best for everybody else.</p>
<p>My advice to you is that just ignore what they said and even better try to spend time or associate with them less.  Because if keeping spending your time with them, one day you may start to believe what they said, begin to think that your dream is a worthless dream and forget about it.</p>
<p>You see, the person who knows you best, the person who knows your capabilities and the person who knows what best for you beside Allah, is yourself.  Some people who are very close to you like your parents may understand your capabilities by the only person who knows you best is yourself <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>And if you believe that you can achieve your dream, you will be able to achieve it.  Of course it would be best to have the people around you especially your love ones to believe in your dream too.  It will help a lot and make things easier for you.</p>
<p>I am not saying that when you have a dream, you believe it and it would come easily to you.  I am saying that if you believe in yourself and your love ones; people around you believe it too, things would be easier.</p>
<p>Because when you have a dream, a goal; there is no straight road to achieve it.  There will always be roadblocks, challenges, detour, hurdles, many disappointments and failures before you can be successfully achieve your dream.  This is where the believes and supports of your love ones are very important.  These believes and supports can keep you moving and help you up when you fall.</p>
<p>However the believes and supports of your love ones would not be enough unless you believe in yourself and take actions to move towards your dream.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s why one of my favourite quotes is by Napoleon Hill &#8220;<em><strong>Whatever the mind conceive and believe, it can achieve.</strong></em>&#8221; <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I admit that sometimes your dream and what you believe in may not be the best for you but if you never try, take action to achieve it; you will never know whether it is the best for you or not.  In the end if you never try, you will never know and keep wondering whether your dream is what best for you.  Like Publilius Syrus said, &#8220;<em><strong>No one knows what he can do until he tries.</strong></em>&#8221;</p>
<p>So if someone comes to you and said that your dream is worthless and they know what best for you, assess their statement, weigh what they said, take the good advises and throw away the rest and move on because in the end it is your life, you are the one who knows what best for you.</p>
<p>Look at history for example Alexandra Graham Bell, Thomas Edison or even Albert Eistein; no one believed them and some may think that they were wasting their time.  However because of their believe in their dreams, their persistence and determination and also the actions that they had taken, they changed the world. </p>
<p>So believe in your dreams, be what you want to be not what others what you to be; things that will give you energy to move forward and you will be a happy person until the end of your life. </p>
<p>Logan Pearsall Smith said, <em><strong>&#8220;There are two things to aim in life: first, to get what you want and after that to enjoy it.&#8221;</strong></em></p>
<p>See you next time <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>New year, new resolution, new beginning</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 16:50:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khadijah Ibrahim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think it is still not too late to wish all of my friends a very happy new year though today is already day 10th of 2012 .  I miss writing here and miss talking to all my friends, that&#8217;s you if you have forgotten that I have been away from my desk for two [...]]]></description>
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<p>I think it is still not too late to wish all of my friends a very happy new year though today is already day 10th of 2012 <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> . </p>
<p>I miss writing here and miss talking to all my friends, that&#8217;s you if you have forgotten that <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I have been away from my desk for two months.  Some of you may know that I went to Mekah since October 2011.  Came back earlier December and only now manage to write.  My mistake&#8230;  Been in my comfort zone for too long :-( that I forgot that I am a writer and writing gives me energy to look forward to life.</p>
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<p>I would like to share with you my experience and stories while I was in Mekah and Madinah but that would be in my next posts.  I promise <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  .  There&#8217;s so much that I would like to share, especially my experience that can make us a better person and I hope that by sharing my experience with you, makes me a better person even more.</p>
<p>Today I am not going to talk about Mekah or Madinah.  I want to talk about well, what else&#8230; new resolution as now is just the beginning of 2012 <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Well, you might be saying that this is going to be something boring as everybody is talking about new resolution everytimes new year comes. Yes, I agreed to that and yes everybody is talking about new resolution nowadays.  Actually I did talked about new resolution last year <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>So without breaking the tradition, I am going to talk about new resolution again&#8230; <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I believe that our resolution should be renewed; not every early of the year but early of each day.  I hope you don&#8217;t misunderstood my words, therefore I am going to say this again; <em><strong>&#8220;Resolution should be renewed everyday not every early of the year.&#8221;</strong></em></p>
<p>Why? You might ask.</p>
<p>Well, the way I see it, we should review our resolution at the end of every day i.e. before we go to sleep so that we can see whether what we have done that day aligned with our resolution or not and whether our resolution is really what we want, the thing that is going to make us happy in the end.</p>
<p>By reviewing this everyday we will always know whether we are in the right direction or not and whether we are making the right resolution to move towards our goal. </p>
<p>It is something like a pilot who is flying the airplane, always checking whether he is in the right direction towards his destination.  If he is diverted from his destination, he will correct his way and fly back to the right direction.  And if he arrive in a wrong destination, he can always turn back and fly towards the right destination.  Provided of course the plane has enough fuel to fly there <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Well, you got the picture.</p>
<p>Same with us, if we always check our actions, we will always know whether what we do are align with our resolution and whether our resolution is making us move towards our goal, our destination.  And when suddenly we realize our resolution is a wrong one, we can make an immediate change to achieve our goal and have a happy life.</p>
<p>You see, things that makes us happy are the things that make us move forward.  If we are not happy with what we are doing, we will remain static, be in just the same place or even worst move backward.</p>
<p>I learned this the hard way.  I did something that I thought would bring me closer to my goal but truthfully it did not as I didn&#8217;t checked.   And I wasted the whole year doing just that.  In the end I realized that I was not moving forward at all instead moving much further away from my goal and suffered for the whole year not being happy. </p>
<p>Luckily someone made me realized what I did.  Though it was painful to swallow but it was the truth.  Hey! I am a human being, I make mistakes too.  Like the saying <strong><em>&#8220;If you never make mistake, you will never grow.&#8221;</em></strong></p>
<p>So my friends, I hope that I have share something valuable with you today and it will make you a better person today.  If you make the wrong resolution last year, well you still have time to change it.  It is never too late to make the change.  As long as you are breathing, it is not too late no matter how old your are.</p>
<p>If you make a mistake, be sad, cry if you want to but after that review it and make improvement.  Like a good friend of mine said don&#8217;t brood over it. </p>
<p>Remember this; everything happens for a reason, whether the thing that happens is good or bad.  What happens next is much more important; it will depend on how we handle the situation.</p>
<p>Just to share with you, something bad happened to me today, I admit I brood about it at first but in the end I realize in a way it is a good thing.  As it gave me the will to write tonight and realize the right direction to move.  So it is not a bad thing after all <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I am signing off with this prayer, &#8220;God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.&#8221; <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>See you next time soon.</p>
<p>Take care</p>
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		<title>Ready, Fire and Aim</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jul 2011 21:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khadijah Ibrahim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have been wanting to write about this topic for a very, very long time.  I kept write and rewriting this article to ensure that everrything that I want to say are very clear. Why?  Because I think this quote really reflect me, reflect how I did things through out my life :-) All through my [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been wanting to write about this topic for a very, very long time.  I kept write and rewriting this article to ensure that everrything that I want to say are very clear. Why?  Because I think this quote really reflect me, reflect how I did things through out my life :-)</p>
<p>All through my life, I have been doing things in this sequence. </p>
<p>Well, let&#8217;s not talk to far into my childhood because that might bores you.  Let&#8217;s just talk about the things that I did from few years back&#8230;</p>
<p>When I first got inspired on writing a book, I just said to myself, &#8220;Hey! I want to write a book.  I got the data and information that I think is very valuable and I want to share it with others.&#8221;  So I started writing.  At that time, all I could think about was putting my book on the shelf of a bookstore.  Thinking back on that, I should have been thinking &#8220;Hey! I want to write a best selling book.&#8221;  Anyway, I have no regrets because my first book opens up a lot of new opportunities that I never thought of doing before.</p>
<p>Ok&#8230; Back to my story&#8230; When I finished writing my book, only then I thought of how to get my book printed and out on the bookshelf.  So I thought of finding a publisher.  It was not an easy thing to do.  It took a lot of determination and persistence from a person who didn&#8217;t have a slightest idea about publishing.  I had been rejected by so many publisher that in the end I almost got discourage.  During this time I took things one step at a time.  What I did was, I kept telling myself, &#8220;One more publisher today.  If I didn&#8217;t get this one, I&#8217;ll stop.&#8221;  But alhamdulillah, I never stopped. Until finally on on fine morning I got a reply from the publisher.</p>
<p>And that was the beginning of my first book, &#8221;<a title="The basic of handwriting analysis" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/tulisan_cerminan_personaliti_diri.htm" target="_blank">Tulisan Cerminan Personaliti Diri</a>&#8221;</p>
<div id="attachment_364" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a title="Handwriting Reveals Personality" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/tulisan_cerminan_personaliti_diri.htm" target="_blank"><img class="size-medium wp-image-364" title="Picture5" src="http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Picture5-300x223.jpg" alt="My First Book" width="300" height="223" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">My First book</p></div>
<p>It may not be a world best selling book yet but I am very proud of it.  My first attempt <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  I am still learning from this experience and I realise that I could do better.  And I am in the midst of writing a new book much better than this <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Like I said earlier, by writing this book, it opens up a lot of new opportunities for me.  Before this I never thought of becoming a coach that shares information with other people through seminars, programs and talks.  I was actually terrified of talking in front of people especially big groups of people <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':-o' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>However I learned and still am learning.  And now I am doing things that I never thought I would love.  One of it is sharing knowledge and value add to others through my programs, seminars and talks <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<div id="attachment_365" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a title="Lets share knowledge" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/trainings.htm" target="_blank"><img class="size-medium wp-image-365 " title="Knowledge Sharing With Master Students in UiTM" src="http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/editable-300x194.jpg" alt="Talks about Handwriting Analysis" width="300" height="194" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Knowledge Sharing with Master Students in UiTM</p></div>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Now I just love doing this knowledge sharing events <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Though I have to admit I still have stage frights at the beginning of each programs but in the end these are the things that give me energy and drive to move forward.</p>
<p>Finally, I found the reason why to I was put on this earth; to share information and value add to others.</p>
<p>I still have a lot of things to share about Ready, Fire, Aims but I think we will continue that in my next post.</p>
<p>But one thing you have to remember, if you know you are doing the right thing then just do it.  A lot of people know that they are ready but keep aiming to ensure that they get the right target and in the end they never actually fire.  If you never fire you will never know whether your target is right or not and you will never have a chance to correct your aim.</p>
<p>See you next time.</p>
<p>Take care.</p>
<p>Khadijah</p>
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		<title>Things happened for a reason</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Mar 2011 16:19:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khadijah Ibrahim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear friends, As you all may have notice, I have not written in my blog for almost 6 months&#8230; A lot of people kept asking me the reason why?  Whether I am alright? Whether I have changed my blog? Or whether I am not writing anymore. The truth is, it is none of the above.  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear friends,</p>
<p>As you all may have notice, I have not written in my blog for almost 6 months&#8230; A lot of people kept asking me the reason why?  Whether I am alright? Whether I have changed my blog? Or whether I am not writing anymore.</p>
<p>The truth is, it is none of the above.  What&#8217;s really happened was that I just lost my dad in early December 2010.  Before that he had been very ill so I decided to put everything on hold so that I could help my mom and sister took care of him.  It had been the hardest time of our life but we were grateful for it as we were able to be with him in the last moments of his life.</p>
<p>Although he had passed away 3 months ago, I am still not able to talk about him without crying.  Although he had been sick for quite some times and we had long expected for the worst, but when it happened; it was still a shock to us.</p>
<p>There are a lot of things that I will never get a chance to say to my dad or even show to him but I am taking this opportunity to write something about his as a tribute to him and of the happy memories that he left us.</p>
<p>One thing that I learned from my dad is persistency.  When my dad set his mind to do something or to achieve something, he did the best that he could to achieve it.  He would not stop until he got what he wanted even if he had to stay awake all night long.  </p>
<p>But the best thing that I had ever learned and received from my dad was becoming the kind of person I am today&#8230;  He taught me to always improved myself and do everything the best that I can and leave everything else to Allah. </p>
<p>When I was a kid, I always cried when I did not achieved what I wanted or focused on.  When that happened, my dad always said this, &#8220;I know that you already work very hard and you have done your very best.  Maybe if you do something different, you will get what you want or you will get what you want when the time is right.  Whatever the situation is, always remember this&#8230; Everything happens for a reason and only Allah know what&#8217;s best for you.  You may not achieve what you want today but always look back and see what you have become in achieving what you want.  You may not get what you want today but if you are grateful and work better, you will achieve better things that you have never dream of achieving before.&#8221;</p>
<p>Thank you dad for all those years and helping me become who I am today.</p>
<p>Till next time.</p>
<p>See you&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Books, coaches and mentors</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Oct 2010 08:23:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khadijah Ibrahim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you like to read books? How many books you read in a day? In a week? In a month? In a year? Do you remember the book or books that inspire you? Do you remember the book that start to make you re-think about your purpose in life and change your life forever?  I still [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you like to read books?</p>
<p>How many books you read in a day? In a week? In a month? In a year?</p>
<p>Do you remember the book or books that inspire you?</p>
<p>Do you remember the book that start to make you re-think about your purpose in life and change your life forever? </p>
<p>I still remember mine&#8230;</p>
<p>Since I was little I liked to read books.  I used to read mystery books, horror books, romance novels and lots of other books.  But I never really read any inspiring or motivational books.</p>
<p>I never really remember how it began but I will always remember the day I picked up the book that give me the inspiration, re-think about my life, realized my true purpose and change my life forever; a 180 degree change. </p>
<p>And since then, there are always books that inspire and motivate me to move forward in life. </p>
<p>Sometimes&#8230; When I feel down, discourage and de-motivate; I can just pick a book and there are always inspiring words or advises that encourage and motivate me to move forward and face the challenge.  It is like a coach or a mentor advising me what to do.</p>
<p>Weird isn&#8217;t it&#8230;  But it is a good weird <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>You see, when you want to be successful in whatever you do, you need to learn.</p>
<p>Learn from everything.  Learn from your own life experience, other people life experience such even from your parents, read books, attend trainings, find coaches or mentors and even observe everything around you. </p>
<p>There will always things that can help you become a better person <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Just open your mind and always be ready to learn. </p>
<p>For some people when something bad happened to them, they just shut their eyes and miss the valuable lesson.  But not you because you know that most of the time challenges and failures are the most valuable things that teach you valuable lessons and bring you a step closer towards your dreams.</p>
<p>Remember this, there will always be lessons in everything that happens to you whether it is good or bad.  The important thing is that how you look at these lessons and how you use it.</p>
<p>If you think that life experiences and reading good books are not enough to help you achieve your dreams then find a coach or a mentor.    </p>
<p style="text-align: center;">
<div id="attachment_354" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a title="My website" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com" target="_blank"><img class="size-medium wp-image-354  " title="My coach" src="http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/with-Mr-David-Wee-300x225.jpg" alt="Learning about entrepreneurship" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Me and my coach</p></div>
<p>Coaches and mentors can also be your eyes opener and help you achieve your dreams.</p>
<p>But the most important thing of all, YOU must take the action.</p>
<p>Ok&#8230; See you next time.</p>
<p>Talk to you soon <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Key to Successes and Riches part 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Apr 2010 15:14:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khadijah Ibrahim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi there! How are you?  Hope you are doing well As for me, I am doing great though a bit exhausted :-0 I will be travelling again next week and this time it will be for a whole (until my birthday, that is ) So I will not be able to talk to you the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi there!</p>
<p>How are you?  Hope you are doing well <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>As for me, I am doing great though a bit exhausted :-0</p>
<p>I will be travelling again next week and this time it will be for a whole (until my birthday, that is <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':-(' class='wp-smiley' />  )</p>
<p>So I will not be able to talk to you the whole of next week.  I will be back the week after next week.</p>
<p>For those who had been writing to me, I apologize for taking some times to reply your emails.  To those that have not receive my replies, I hope that you will be patient.  I am a bit slow in replying but I will reply, that&#8217;s my promise.  Things are a bit hectic around here especially now as I am involve in a commercial job and everything <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />   I guess I have to find a mastermind soon&#8230;</p>
<p>Anyway this is not what I want to talk about today.</p>
<p>As promise, today I want to talk about the number two key to successes and riches.</p>
<p>It is Sound Physical Health.</p>
<p>I could hear some of you saying, what!!!  Physical Health???</p>
<p>Does she knows what she is talking about?</p>
<p>To answer that question, yes I do&#8230; <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Think of it this way, if you have all the riches in this world; all the gold and diamonds and money but you are always sick and have to stay in bed all day and night, would all the riches mean anything to you.  Ok, you might say that you have all the money so you can pay for the best doctor to cure you.  However what if this best doctor does not know what&#8217;s wrong with you.  This doctor&#8217;s solution is to cut you to see what is wrong inside of you.  Would you want to do that?  Do you want to be reach with scars all over your body?</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think so&#8230;</p>
<p>So as you are working towards your successes and riches, you must also work to take care of you health. </p>
<p>Eat healthy and do exercise.  Take great care of your body.  You only have one body&#8230;  No money in this world would be able to make another body for you.</p>
<p>One way to stay healthy is to eat moderately.  Researches had shown that unhealthiness starts from the stomach.  So eat whatever you body needs instead of eating everything your heart desire&#8230;</p>
<p>There&#8217;s also a saying that say, &#8220;Eat when you are hungry and stop before you are full.&#8221; </p>
<p>However most of us keep on eating even after we are full <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>So take great care of your body so that you are healthy and able to enjoy the successes and reaches that you achieve.</p>
<p>Ok&#8230; With that I am going to stop here.</p>
<p>See you again the week after next week.</p>
<p>In the mean time, remember to read my <a title="My digital product" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">15 Secrets of Making Money with Positve Personality Revealed</a></p>
<p>or</p>
<p>Go to my website at <a href="http://www.amazingwriting.com">http://www.amazingwriting.com</a> to get more information about handwriting analysis.</p>
<p>You can also join me in facebook or twitter.  I will soon include the links here.</p>
<p>So&#8230; See you soon.</p>
<p>Stay happy and healthy.</p>
<p>Your partner towards your success,</p>
<p>Khadijah</p>
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		<title>My Final Post &#8230; :-(</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 11:02:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khadijah Ibrahim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi all! How are you doing?  Hope you are doing fine. As promise this is my final post&#8230;   :-0 Well&#8230; My final post for 2009. Gotcha there! Ha&#8230; Ha&#8230; Ha&#8230; Anyway, hope all your dreams and goals that you set on the New Year Eve of 2009 have come true.  If you have not [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi all!</p>
<p>How are you doing?  Hope you are doing fine.</p>
<p>As promise this is my final post&#8230; <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':-(' class='wp-smiley' />   :-0</p>
<p>Well&#8230; My final post for 2009. <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Gotcha there! <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Ha&#8230; Ha&#8230; Ha&#8230;</p>
<p>Anyway, hope all your dreams and goals that you set on the New Year Eve of 2009 have come true. </p>
<p>If you have not achieve all yet, well put them into your 2010 resolutions and take actions (more actions than in 2009) to achieve them.  I know that&#8217;s what I am going.</p>
<p>However if you have not taken any action to make your resolutions or dreams or goals happened &#8230; Well, you should be ashame of yourself!  Wake up! It is almost the end of 2009 and 2010 is coming!</p>
<p>Unfortunately the past is in the past.  There&#8217;s nothing you can do about it. </p>
<p>What you can do now is renew those 2009&#8242;s resolutions and make sure you take actions in 2010.  And the first thing that you need to do is change your habits, habits that lead you to where you are now.</p>
<p>You should go to my website at <a title="my website about handwriting analysis" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com" target="_blank">http://www.amazingwriting.com</a> and read my e-report &#8220;Habits that cause you to fail&#8221; and follow what suggested to be done.  If you have any enquiry, anything at all; please let me know.</p>
<p>Or you should read my &#8220;<a title="Improve your personality" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">15 Secrets of Making Money with Personality Revealed</a>&#8221; that will show you how to identify the negative habits in you and turn them into positve and successful habits.</p>
<p>For those who achieved all your 2009&#8242;s resolutions, congratulation! </p>
<p>Start making new goals or resolutions or targets for 2010.  Why because that is how we become better person and to make sure that we are always in the momentum to be successful.  When you already achieve your goals make new ones <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>As for me, I achieve some of my goals while others take longer time to achieve than I had anticipated.  However I am not worried, I am optimistic about 2010 <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Of course there are also frustrations and disappointments in 2009 however I am considering these as learning curve that guide me to become a better person.  Because sometimes the things that we really want may not be something that is good for us.  So always be grateful and take better actions next time.</p>
<p>2009 has been a learning curve for me too.  I got to know and became the student of John Thornhill, get to know Daniel, <a title="Website designer" href="http://www.planet-divinity.com/?a_aid=efbd3b43" target="_blank">Steve from invinity</a>, Kevin, Carol, PJ, Mark, becomes the student of Russell Brunson and many more internet marketers that I don&#8217;t manage to mention them here (too long list <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />  ) and also people from the ministries and many more. </p>
<p>I get to know about twitter (remember to follow me at twitter) and also got to learn about body language from an ex FBI agent&#8230; How cool is that!</p>
<p>I think next year I will talk about body language too.  So stay tune <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>But best of all, I get to know you, share with you my experience along 2009 and the knowledge that I had learned.</p>
<p>Thank you for being a good listener and friend.  Thank you for all your comments.</p>
<p>I hope these will continue in 2010 and beyond <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Good bye 2009 and welcome 2010&#8230;.</p>
<p>I pray that 2010 will bring prosperity to all of us.</p>
<p>See you in 2010!</p>
<p>Your partner towards your success,</p>
<p>Khadijah</p>
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		<title>The simplest way to build success</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2009 03:59:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khadijah Ibrahim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi! All&#8230; It has been quite sometimes since I last wrote. Remember I told you that I was invited to the National Library the last two weeks.  Well, it had been quite an experience. I met a lot of different people, different attitude and of course different types of handwriting But most of all in the event [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi! All&#8230;</p>
<p>It has been quite sometimes since I last wrote.</p>
<p>Remember I told you that I was invited to the National Library the last two weeks. </p>
<p>Well, it had been quite an experience.</p>
<p>I met a lot of different people, different attitude and of course different types of handwriting <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>But most of all in the event I became face to face sales person.  I got to put what I have learned in &#8220;The Art of Closing Sales&#8221; into practise.  Which was hard at first as I never done face to face selling before <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>It was a great experience and the main thing I learned was that whether it was selling online or offline, you need to be determine, persistence and really want to help the other person advance in their life.</p>
<p>Which is why I created <a title="My digital product" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">&#8220;Secret of Making Money with Personality Revealed&#8221;.</a></p>
<p>I also had added a free report called <a title="My gift to you" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com" target="_blank">&#8220;Habits That Cause You To Fail&#8221;</a> in my website at <a href="http://www.amazingwriting.com">http://www.amazingwriting.com</a> .</p>
<p>All you need to do is go there by <a title="my website about handwriting analysis" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com" target="_blank">clicking here </a>and sign-up and receive the free report automatically.  This report will help you to change your life dramatically and you are a number of steps foward in achieving your dream.</p>
<p>Speaking of National Library, my eBooks, books etc, recently I did a brief calculation.</p>
<p>Do you know that one of the way to be successful is to learn?  One way to learn is through reading (other that going to training, seminars, schools etc).</p>
<p>If you want to make a habit out of reading but you do not have the time to do it, this is what I came out with when I did the brief calculation:</p>
<p>Let say you are a very busy person but surely you could spare 30 minutes of your time every day.</p>
<p>Imagine spending 15 minutes in the morning i.e. before you go to work and 15 minutes at night before you go to sleep reading.</p>
<p>You will get 30 minutes of reading time a day.  If you practise this everyday, you will get 3 hours and 30 minutes a week.  And if you carry on with this habit, you will get 15 hours of reading a month (consider a month = 30 days) and that will be 180 hours a year.</p>
<p>Phew! That is a lot of reading hours.</p>
<p>Now lets go a bit further.  For example you could read 5 pages in 15 minutes, that would make 10 pages a day which will be 3600 pages a year.</p>
<p>If the average pages in the books you are reading are 200 pages per book then you would have been reading 18 books a year.</p>
<p>So you see, it doesn&#8217;t take a lot of effort to create a good habit.  All it takes is practise and determination.</p>
<p>To be successful, one of the thing to do is to learn as there is no such thing called &#8216;success pill&#8217; where you could consume it and become instant success.  Even if there is such thing than your success will not last long.  As you never know the meaning of work behind it.</p>
<p>So if you want to achieve your dream start learning on how to achieve it.</p>
<p>And if you need more eBooks to read and learn,</p>
<p><a title="John Thornhill's Product" href="http://analyst08.planetsms.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_blank">=====&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt; Click here</a></p>
<p><a title="my website about handwriting analysis" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com" target="_blank">or visit here to learn more about building good habits.</a></p>
<p>Remember this &#8220;Readers are Leaders&#8221;.</p>
<p>Till next time <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Your Partner Towards Your Success,</p>
<p>Khadijah</p>
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		<title>Start saying Thank You today</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 May 2009 16:52:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khadijah Ibrahim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Can I ask you a question? Do you say thank you to enough people every day? A lot of books that I had read suggested that we should say thank you to at least 5 people before we go to sleep at night. There&#8217;s an interesting article I read, written by Cleo Gehrke DuBOIS in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can I ask you a question?</p>
<p>Do you say thank you to enough people every day?</p>
<p>A lot of books that I had read suggested that we should say thank you to at least 5 people before we go to sleep at night.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s an interesting article I read, written by Cleo Gehrke DuBOIS in the book edited by Og Mandino (Best selling author for The Greatest Salesman in the World) tells a story about Edward L Kramer who started the Thank-U-Grams.  Mr Kramer wanted to convince his children that if they looked for the good in life they&#8217;d find it.  So to find a  more graphical way to demonstrate this, he had asked his children to find three people to say thank you to each day and sent them a thank you note. </p>
<p>To make the story short, in the end he had started this Thank-U-Grams that had been used worldwide and a lot of people had benefited from this such as warm feelings, more opportunities and many other things.</p>
<p>I am not sure whether this Thank-U-Grams still exist or not but I am sure like to start one today <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>But what I want to do tonight (it&#8217;s night in Malaysia <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> ) is to say thank you to all the people that touches my life here in my blog.</p>
<p>Of course the first would be Allah for all the things that He gives me as everything that had happened or will happen, have a reason behind it and He knows the best.</p>
<p>I would also like to thank my parents especially my mom for all the love and supports that they have given me.</p>
<p>Thank you to my friend who also unofficially becomes my editor who had help edited my ebook <a title="My digital product" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">&#8220;The Secret of Making Money with Personality Revealed&#8221;</a> and <a title="My handwriting analysis website" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/explanation.htm" target="_blank">&#8220;Simple Traits in Your Handwriting&#8221; </a>and a lot of my articles.</p>
<p>Thank you to<a title="John's PowerSeller products" href="http://analyst08.planetsms.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_blank"> John Thornhill </a>and <a title="John's Product" href="http://analyst08.smsdigital.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_blank">Daniel</a> who have been helping me a lot.</p>
<p>Thank you to <a title="Website designing" href="http://www.planet-divinity.com/?a_aid=efbd3b43" target="_blank">Steve</a> from <a title="Website designing" href="http://www.planet-divinity.com/?a_aid=efbd3b43" target="_blank">Planet Divinity</a> who help me with the sales page and ebook cover.</p>
<p>Thank you to <a title="D9 domain" href="http://www.d9hosting.co.uk/clients/aff.php?aff=086" target="_blank">Paula </a>for the <a title="D9 hosting" href="http://www.d9hosting.co.uk/clients/aff.php?aff=086" target="_blank">domain and hosting</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you to <a title="Distribute articles" href="http://www.submityourarticle.com/affiliates/idevaffiliate.php?id=1173" target="_blank">Steve Shaw </a>for helping me to distribute my articles</p>
<p>And special thanks to you for reading and subscribing to my blog, subscribing to my <a title="My 7 days mini course" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">mini course</a>, purchasing my <a title="My digital product" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">digital products</a>, using my services as <a title="My handwriting analysis website" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/fee.htm" target="_blank">handwriting analyst </a>and purchasing my <a title="My eBook" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/explanation.htm" target="_blank">eBook</a> and <a title="My handwriting analysis website" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/tulisan_cerminan_personaliti_diri.html" target="_blank">physical book</a>, attended my <a title="My handwriting analysis website" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/training.htm" target="_blank">trainings</a> and last but not least becoming my friends and letting me help you to become a better person.</p>
<p>Again thank you from the bottom of my heart <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />  to you.</p>
<p>I will do this again <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>See you soon.</p>
<p>Remember, if there is anything I could help you with, let me know.</p>
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		<title>Would it worth to spend $27?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2009 16:29:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khadijah Ibrahim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi everyone!  Hope you are having a great day today. I am having a great day today, though it is quite hot here in.  The temperature shown on my desk is 32.1 deg C.  Wow! It&#8217;s really hot&#8230;  However I think I should be grateful.  If it is hot here, there are places that are hotter [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi everyone!  Hope you are having a great day today.</p>
<p>I am having a great day today, though it is quite hot here in.  The temperature shown on my desk is 32.1 deg C.  Wow! It&#8217;s really hot&#8230;  However I think I should be grateful.  If it is hot here, there are places that are hotter <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Ok, what I am going to write about today is something a person asked me the other day, the day I released my limited bonuses to be exact.</p>
<p><a title="My digital product" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">Click here to view the sales page</a></p>
<p>The question was would it worth to spend $27 to purchase my product?  I was stunned.  Not because I did not know what to say but because the person asked me, the owner of the product.  What would this person expect me to say? Of course I would say my product worth $27, I created it.  I wouldn&#8217;t want to create something that is worthless to anyone as I want everyone who use it to have a positive impact and succeed.</p>
<p>Then I saw why I was asked this question, this person really wanted to hear how high do I see my own product because if I don&#8217;t see my product as very good, nobody else would.</p>
<p>So I answered  this person question with an interesting story of how I started with this internet marketing that lead me to creating my <a title="My digital product" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">Secret of Making Money with Positive Personality Revealed</a>.  Well, I told this person quite a long story but don&#8217;t worry, I am going to tell you a shorter version instead.</p>
<p>I first started to get interested in internet marketing back in the end of 2005.  At that time I had zero knowledge about domain or hosting or even about website. I actually never heard about domain or hosting before.  Well, maybe I had heard about them but never took much interest about them then.</p>
<p>The thing about me is that when I started to get interested about something I started to learn, do research and ask questions, lots of questions.  I started to subscribe to lots of newsletter, membership and even spend lots of money buying lots of products that people claimed could help me built my online business.  But none of them answered my simple question, &#8220;How do I start?&#8221; </p>
<p>There&#8217;s really no step-by-step guide for someone who didn&#8217;t know anything but was interested in internet marketing.  All the products that I purchased seemed to think that I was already an expert where in reality, I was not even sure how to go from A to B. </p>
<p>One day a friend gave me an email address of a person, a successful internet marketer to be exact. My friend told me to sent the questions that had been bugging me to this person.  This person might be able to help.  So I did.  And I did get a reply, from this person&#8217;s assistant of course <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />   The assistant didn&#8217;t answered my questions instead suggested me to attend their one day workshop that they were going to organized in two weeks time and by attending that workshop all my questions would be answered. </p>
<p>At first I was reluctant as the workshop was really expensive.  It was about $220 where when converted to Malaysia Ringgit was around RM740.  That was just for the workshop alone not counting the transportation fee to go there, lodging, food etc.  The amount was so big that when I calculated the total I could actually used it to cover my one month expenses plus some extra <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>However after giving a lot of thought and thinking that after this I could start to build my own online business, I closed one eye (I couldn&#8217;t close both eyes as I would not be able to see <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />  and registered for the workshop <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>The workshop was quite good as I learned a lot from there (I had to learn a lot as I had spent a month money that I could use to pay my bills for example) though I was not able to ask a lot of questions due to too many people attending this course.  Almost all my questions were answered and I even understand what niche is all about (although no need to go to an expensive course to understand this <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />   ).</p>
<p>But when I got home and sitting in front of my computer, I still not able to begin. </p>
<p>Why?  Because I had a lot of information but it was scattered all over.  I was not sure which one was the head and which was the tail.  And I started to ask questions again, &#8221;How should I start?&#8221;, &#8220;How should I design my website?&#8221;, &#8220;What program do I need to use?&#8221; and many more other questions.  In the end I felt so overwhelmed with questions where I felt that all the information that I had raised more questions in my head.  In other words I was still in square on but with a lot of information.</p>
<p>In the end I still could not start and all my efforts and money became a waste&#8230;. </p>
<p>You see when you are a newbie and learning everything for the first time it would be better if there is someone to guide you step-by-step or atleast you should learn things step-by-step, start with the very basic first.  And when you understand the basic everything else will become easy.</p>
<p>I learned this the hard way, through an expensive workshop, through lots and lots of money spent purchasing digital product (the digital products that I bought are good however they became no use to me when I didn&#8217;t understand the basic) and even got scammed (well I am not going to repeat the story as you had heard it before <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  ) .</p>
<p>To make the story short, I was frustrated <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':-(' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>I was ready to throw everything away and forget about internet marketing.</p>
<p>However while having one last look on all the information available; I began to be able to put two and two together.  You see, when all the puzzle pieces were there in front of you; you would suddenly realised the missing link and find the solution <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>That was when I began to understand where I should start, what need to be done first and so on (I am not going to tell the whole story here <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  Maybe someday).  I started to realize it was not difficult to start my own online business, all I need are the understanding of what to do, plan on what to do and taking action on what need to be done.  It is so simple that I wonder why I didn&#8217;t understand it from the beginning.</p>
<p>Do you know why I didn&#8217;t understand it at the begining?  As I said before all the information was all there.  The reason was that everything was scattered all over the place and was not in the order that a newbie like me could understand.  Everything was all over the place that made me confused and couldn&#8217;t put two and two together.</p>
<p>These made me thinking.  I was the one with all the information had a difficult time understanding these, what about the others who may not have all the information,.  How could they understand?</p>
<p>So with all the information that I have and much more after that (I did a lot of additional researches before writing <a title="My digital product" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">Secret of Making Money with Positive Personality Revealed</a>), I put together something that is very simple, easy to understand and step-by-step guide on building your successful online business.  This is the methods that not only I use but also by other successful internet marketers when they started their business.  You will not be asking &#8220;How to start?&#8221; or even &#8220;Where to start&#8221; because I will be showing you all these.  All you need to do is follow each step as per the eBook said and you will be on your way towards your successful online business.</p>
<p><a title="My digital product" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">Click here to go to the sales page</a></p>
<p>So the answer to the question whether is it worth to spend $27 on my <a title="My digital product" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">Secret of Making Money with Positive Personality Revealed</a>?  The truth is <a title="My digital product" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">Secret of Making Money with Positive Personality Revealed</a> worth more than the $27 that you spend.</p>
<p>Because it contains all the information from the $220 1 day workshop plus combination of information from the digital products written by successful internet marketers plus knowledge about your personality through your handwriting (which I could assure you that no other online business eBooks have).  All are put together in a simplest and positive way, easy to understand and you will have the positive feeling that is very important to be successful when you finish reading the <a title="My digital product" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">Secret of Making Money with Positive Personality Revealed</a>.</p>
<p><a title="My digital product" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">So click here to go to the sales page</a></p>
<p>Adding value to this, I am giving away (<strong>for limited time only</strong>) my eBook on the traits in your handwriting which you can have fun with the information, plus other eBooks on internet marketing plus an eBook about developing positive personality.  I personally and carefully hand pick all the bonuses so that you could have the best information there is to build your successful online business.</p>
<p>So what are you waiting for? You have to act <a title="My digital product" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">NOW</a>.</p>
<p><a title="My digital product" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">Click here to go to the sales page</a>.</p>
<p>If you have any enquiries please let me know.</p>
<p><a title="My digital product" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">Go to the sales page NOW</a></p>
<p>Talk to you again soon.</p>
<p>Your partner towards your success,</p>
<p>Khadijah</p>
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