In my opinion, this is really true.  In my opinion life is not always full of rainbows. sunshine, colours and musics.  Most of the times it is also fills with rain, thunderstorm, black and white and even sutnami

Well, the truth is that all the roadblocks, hurdles and challenges are how we can grow.  Because all the challenges, roadblocks and hurdles are truthfully our opportunities to learn and grow.  It is the opportunity to become what we want to be.  If everything is so great in our life then we will never learn, never able to grow and most probably forget our roots, where we came from.

Let me share with you a story about  a little boy who overcome all the challenges, hurdles and roadblocks and became a great man.  At the age of 7, his teacher always pointed out about his unusually broad forehead and saying that his head was considerably larger than average.  His teacher believed that this hyperactive youngster had a brain that was “addled” or scrambled.

He also had a poor hearing and because of the negative treatments he received from his teacher, his mother who believed that her son was intelligent withdrew him from school.  Due to this he only had 3 months of formal education.

However he loved reading and he loved asking questions.  He was exposed to history and english literature and was very interested in Shakespear’s plays that he briefly considered himself to become an actor.  However because of his high-pitched voice and extreme shyness in front of audiences he soon gave up his idea.

His parents especially his mother believed in his ability when nobody else did.  They introduced him to the use of library to appease his voracious appetite to knowledge.  He became interested in Science and very into Newton’s theory.

As he grew up, he developed a strong sense of perseverance, readily expending whatever amount of perspiration needed to overcome challenges. 

He was once being struck by a train conductor due to an accident that caused a baggage car to catch a fire.  This may had add to the hearing loss that he already inherited and from later from a scarlet fever.  By the time he was 14 years old, it  was  virtually impossible for him to acquire knowledge in a typical educational setting. Amazingly,  however, he never seemed to fret a whole lot over the matter. Naturally inclined towards accepting his fate in life – and promptly  adapting to whatever he was convinced was out of his control -he always reacted by committing  himself to compensating via  alternative methods….

ltimately, he  became totally deaf in his left ear, and approximately 80% deaf in his right ear.

To make his story short, he encountered a lot of disappointments, rejections and failures, challenges and roadblocks.  He even been in deeply debt and almost being fired from his job.

But he never gave up.  He was Thomas Edison who invented the first commercially practical incandescent electric light bulb.

You can read more about him in his biography and books about his life and inventions.

What I am trying to say and even to remind myself is that to become successful is not easy.  Challenges, roadblocks and hurdles are part of life and makes path towards success much interesting

They are there to make sure that we never forget our roots when we are at the top.

Hope to see you soon, till next time

Take care.  

Some of them asked me why?, there were also those who said that I was daring enough to venture into an unknown horizon; a 180 degree different from my trained profession and there were also people who bluntly said I was not thinking straight, it was a waste of time.

There were times after that especially during difficult times that I too wondered whether what they said was true and whether I had made the right decision.

Until today, there are still people who are trying to talk me out of pursing my dream and even said that my dream is a worthless dream.  They said that my dream is not going to bring a lot of money or my dream is not going to make me a happy person or my dream is not going anywhere or what I am doing is not the best for me and they actually know what best for me :-(

Well, I called these people a dream killer.  They don’t actually know what they are talking about or they are a failure because they may once had a dream before and on their first or second attempts failed and after that they never tried again.  And the worst this is that they believe that if they failed in their first and second attempts, everybody else who has dreams will fail too.  What make things worst are that they suddenly thought that they are the expert on dreams and they know what best for everybody else.

My advice to you is that just ignore what they said and even better try to spend time or associate with them less.  Because if keeping spending your time with them, one day you may start to believe what they said, begin to think that your dream is a worthless dream and forget about it.

You see, the person who knows you best, the person who knows your capabilities and the person who knows what best for you beside Allah, is yourself.  Some people who are very close to you like your parents may understand your capabilities by the only person who knows you best is yourself

And if you believe that you can achieve your dream, you will be able to achieve it.  Of course it would be best to have the people around you especially your love ones to believe in your dream too.  It will help a lot and make things easier for you.

I am not saying that when you have a dream, you believe it and it would come easily to you.  I am saying that if you believe in yourself and your love ones; people around you believe it too, things would be easier.

Because when you have a dream, a goal; there is no straight road to achieve it.  There will always be roadblocks, challenges, detour, hurdles, many disappointments and failures before you can be successfully achieve your dream.  This is where the believes and supports of your love ones are very important.  These believes and supports can keep you moving and help you up when you fall.

However the believes and supports of your love ones would not be enough unless you believe in yourself and take actions to move towards your dream.

That’s why one of my favourite quotes is by Napoleon Hill “Whatever the mind conceive and believe, it can achieve.”

I admit that sometimes your dream and what you believe in may not be the best for you but if you never try, take action to achieve it; you will never know whether it is the best for you or not.  In the end if you never try, you will never know and keep wondering whether your dream is what best for you.  Like Publilius Syrus said, “No one knows what he can do until he tries.”

So if someone comes to you and said that your dream is worthless and they know what best for you, assess their statement, weigh what they said, take the good advises and throw away the rest and move on because in the end it is your life, you are the one who knows what best for you.

Look at history for example Alexandra Graham Bell, Thomas Edison or even Albert Eistein; no one believed them and some may think that they were wasting their time.  However because of their believe in their dreams, their persistence and determination and also the actions that they had taken, they changed the world. 

So believe in your dreams, be what you want to be not what others what you to be; things that will give you energy to move forward and you will be a happy person until the end of your life. 

Logan Pearsall Smith said, “There are two things to aim in life: first, to get what you want and after that to enjoy it.”

See you next time

Hope today has been a great day for you.  Hope that tomorrow, the day after tomorrow and days after that will be a great days for all of you.

That is how we should face our days… with positive attitude.  Because when we are positive everything that comes our way will be positive.  It is the law of attraction, alike attracts alike

If you start your day with hatred in your heart, negative attitude or even negative thinking; your whole day will be negative too.  Believe me… It will.  You will feel that you are a victim and the whole world is against you.

So start your day with a positive feeling.  Smile even if you do not feel you want to and you will make your day and others worthwhile

When you are positive, people who are following you will be positive too. When you are always angry, your followers or your subordinates will in the end do the same too. 

“People follow what they see not what they hear.”

Especially if you are a leader of your organization.  Being positive is much more crucial.

Wait! I can hear you saying that you are not the CEO of your organization.  Well, you don’t have to be a CEO or a manager to become a leader.  A leader can emerge at any level of the organization.  A simple definition of leadership is the ability to obtain followers. 

Therefore even if you are at the bottom level of your organization but you have followers or people who admire you then you are a leader.  And to become a good leader your need to develop good attitude.

It’s true that good attitudes alone may not be the asset that makes us a great leader but these good attitudes will help us reach our full potential.  These will differentiate us from those who have wrong or bad attitudes.

Like what Walt Emerson said “What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.”

One of the attitudes of a good leader is listening skill.  You need to teach yourself  to listen to people’s dreams, motivations, hopes, strengths and even weaknesses.  When you listen, you need to listen with your heart not only with your ears.  Your body language must shows that you are interested to listen to their stories. With this attitude, people will know that you care and then only they will follow you.

One simple trait in your handwriting that shows that you are a good listener is in the letter “e”.  I am not saying that this is the only trait but as an example I am showing you the simplest.

People who write their “e” like the above encourages others input and listen with an open mind

However you must also remember that other traits or attitudes you have may reduce this trait in you.  For example you may have this trait but you are also a stubborn person which will definitely reduce your good listening attitude.

Therefore the first step to become a good leader is, you must assess yourself, make the necessary changes for the better and people around you will follow to change for the better too.

Lets continue in my next post…

Take care and see you.

All through my life, I have been doing things in this sequence. 

Well, let’s not talk to far into my childhood because that might bores you.  Let’s just talk about the things that I did from few years back…

When I first got inspired on writing a book, I just said to myself, “Hey! I want to write a book.  I got the data and information that I think is very valuable and I want to share it with others.”  So I started writing.  At that time, all I could think about was putting my book on the shelf of a bookstore.  Thinking back on that, I should have been thinking “Hey! I want to write a best selling book.”  Anyway, I have no regrets because my first book opens up a lot of new opportunities that I never thought of doing before.

Ok… Back to my story… When I finished writing my book, only then I thought of how to get my book printed and out on the bookshelf.  So I thought of finding a publisher.  It was not an easy thing to do.  It took a lot of determination and persistence from a person who didn’t have a slightest idea about publishing.  I had been rejected by so many publisher that in the end I almost got discourage.  During this time I took things one step at a time.  What I did was, I kept telling myself, “One more publisher today.  If I didn’t get this one, I’ll stop.”  But alhamdulillah, I never stopped. Until finally on on fine morning I got a reply from the publisher.

And that was the beginning of my first book, ”Tulisan Cerminan Personaliti Diri”

My First book

It may not be a world best selling book yet but I am very proud of it.  My first attempt I am still learning from this experience and I realise that I could do better.  And I am in the midst of writing a new book much better than this

Like I said earlier, by writing this book, it opens up a lot of new opportunities for me.  Before this I never thought of becoming a coach that shares information with other people through seminars, programs and talks.  I was actually terrified of talking in front of people especially big groups of people

However I learned and still am learning.  And now I am doing things that I never thought I would love.  One of it is sharing knowledge and value add to others through my programs, seminars and talks

Knowledge Sharing with Master Students in UiTM

Now I just love doing this knowledge sharing events

Though I have to admit I still have stage frights at the beginning of each programs but in the end these are the things that give me energy and drive to move forward.

Finally, I found the reason why to I was put on this earth; to share information and value add to others.

I still have a lot of things to share about Ready, Fire, Aims but I think we will continue that in my next post.

But one thing you have to remember, if you know you are doing the right thing then just do it.  A lot of people know that they are ready but keep aiming to ensure that they get the right target and in the end they never actually fire.  If you never fire you will never know whether your target is right or not and you will never have a chance to correct your aim.

See you next time.

Take care.

Khadijah

Hope you are doing well. 

It has been a busy month and finally today I have the opportunity to write.

Before I write further, I want to ask you a question.  What is success to you?

Is success means making millions of dollars?

Is success means becoming rich?

Is success means owning multi-millions businesses?

Is success means raising healthy and happy children?

Is success means that you have a successful career?

Or is success means that you are happy with what you are doing and are happy with your life?

In my opinion different people would have different opinion about success.  Some people would consider themselves as successful when they earn millions of dollars or have their own successful businesses.  Some people would consider themselves as successful when their children are happy and successful themselves while others consider themselves as successful when they are able to help as many people as they can.

So you see… Different people have different definition on success and there is no right and wrong answers.

What’s may seems successful to me, may not seem successful to you and vice versa.

However whatever definition and opinion you have about success, one thing that we have in common is that when you and I want to achieve whatever success we want; we need to work for it.

We need to have determination, persistance, believe in ourselves and overcome any challenges and obstacles until we achieve the success that we have been dreaming about.  We need to be focus and not let our eyes off our goals until the day we successfully achieve it.

Therefore no matter whats success means to you, you have to do all you can to achieve that success.

Like what Vince Lombardi said, “The price of success is hard work, dedication to the job at hand and the determination that whether we win or lose, we have applied the best of ourselves to the task at hand.”

Recently I had the opportunity to attend a seminar in Singapore where I met people from all over the world and most of them are people from all around Asia. 

My new friends from all over the world

These people are successful in their own ways.  Some of them are successful parents, directors, managers, trainers, sales persons, husbands and even wifes.  All of them are working their very best in the things that they believe in and are good at what they are doing.

All of them have a number of things in common:

1.  Believe in themselves.

2. Determination.

3. Persistence.

4. Doing the best that they can.

5. Good heart.

And they all come from different part of this world.

So you see, you can be anywhere in this world but when you want to be successful, you will need to have the same attitude as anyone in any part of the world that already are successful.

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Talk to you soon.

Until then… take care.

Khadijah

My last post was on 8th February 2010 and it had been almost 3 weeks before I got the chance to write something today

I had been travelling these past few weeks and I am going to travel again tomorrow.

I must start to think about having a team as what I discussed before :-0

Well, the truth is I already started to form some kind of mastermind group.  These people are the one promoting my trainings now.  So currently I am leaving to these people to do what they are good at… doing marketing and I doing what I am good at, talking to people, do presentations and inspiring people

So the next thing I need to think about is having a team for my internet marketing…

You see when you surround yourself with experts, people who are good at what they are doing; your life becomes easier and you will start achieving what you want to achieve.

Because nobody is actually good at doing everything themselves.  It’s good to know what you want others to do for you but doing the real job, you got to leave it to the experts.

All successful people had some kind of mastermind group.  It does not have to be a big group; two people can also form a mastermind group.  So it is not that difficult…isn’t it?

So take the actions now!  If you need to form a group to help you be successful then do it, what are you waiting for.  But one thing you must remember is that if you want people to help you be successful, you must also be ready to help these people be successful too.   So that everyone can become successful

So if you want to be successful start taking actions.  Do what you already plan to do; don’t just stop at planning stage ok, keep moving.  There will be a lot of obstacles and challenges of course but never ever give-up.

And remember I am here to help you

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Ok… I think that’s it for today.  I need to pack now.

See you soon

Your partner towards your success,

Khadijah

Some of them even wanted to give-up or already given up and there are many of them who become discourage.  A lot of them that came to me and said “My dreams are worthless, there is no point to carry on.” or “Life is not fair, why everybody else find an easy way while I have to go through a hard way.”

Well, the truth is achieving dreams is never an easy path.  There will always be obstacles, challenges and roadblocks.  Because if the path you are going through is so easy it may not be a dream that is worth pursuing. 

Why???

Because these obstacles, challenges and roadblocks are the things that make us grow.  These are the things that that teach us about life, teach us to be someone better.  These are the things that remind us of our roots, where we come from when we are at the top.  These are the things that remind us to help others to be at the top with us.  These are the things that give us strengths even when we are already successful because there are always challenges even when we are already at the top.

There is a saying that goes, “Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength.” – Mathama Gandhi.

So to those who came to me and said that they are giving up because they encounter with to many rejections, they are fed-up being rejected,  what I say is, “Reject rejection.”  Think of it this way, there must be a good reason why it happens.  Maybe the boss is not as good as you see him externally, maybe the job is not the best as it seems to be, maybe you are going to create a better product that will make your a millionaire because of these rejections or maybe this is the turning point for you to take better steps. 

And remember this, when the time comes that something that you want, will want you.  So never ever give-up.

Someday you will build success.

If you want me to talk more about building success here or to your event or to your people, you can contact me here or through my email at kinetic_0102@yahoo.com or any of my other emails.

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Till next time, take good care of yourself and stay positive.

Your partner towards your success,

Khadijah

How are you today?  Hope that you are happy

Last week I was in Singapore for 3 days attending a seminar.  It was a very intensive seminar where it started at 9:00 a.m. and ended at 11:00 p.m.

Wow! I was so exhausted! 

Though it had been a tiring three days…  It had been a very informative three days and I met a lot of new friends.  Some of them are establish trainers, best selling authors, business men, managers, students and even millionaires

In the 3 days, I had conversations with quite a number of people.   During these conversations I found there were a lot of different opinions.  For example, some of them did find these three days seminar a waste of time and money as although there had been a lot of information given; there were also a lot of promotional for the organizer’s other products.  I had to agree with that, I even able to identify when the promotional begun and at what time :-0

There were also people who said that there were too many dancing and clapping instead of information.

There were also people who said that they learned a lot in these three days seminar and able to get great bargains in purchasing other of the organizer’s products.

There are even people who found their soulmate during these three days

You see what I am trying to say? Same place, same environment, same time, same situation but different acceptance.

All these people were sitting in the same convention center, at the same time, listening and seeing the same thing.  However each and everyone of them accepted what had been delivered differently and formed their own opinions. Some liked it and some don’t.

It is the same with our goals.  Most of us have the same goals such as becoming successful in our career, make a lot of money, become a millionaire, become financially abundance, famous etc.

However not all of us are achieving our goals. Some people are only dreaming of these goals and these goals become dreams that never become realities.

Why do these happen?  Because

1. Don’t know what to do to achieve the goals

2. Never take any actions

3. Give-up when encounter with challenges

4. Not determine enough to achieve the goals set

5. Fear of failure

6. Fear of too much work

7. And many more other excuses…

These are some of the excuses that separate losers from achievers.

Achievers do not give excuses why they could not achieve their goals, they give excuses of why they will achieve their goals.  If the achievers see that what they are doing are not moving them towards their goals, instead of complaining and giving excuses; they find different ways to make things work.  They also keep saying positive things to motivate themselves to move forward.

So which groups are you in?  Only you have the answer

So I leave you today with that question.

And if your answer is you are an achiever but you don’t know what to do.  Contact me, I will help you get started.

By the way, my product “15 secrets of Making Money with Positive Personality Revealed” can help you get started.

In there, I show you how to get started and how to develop positive personality that will support you in achieving your goals.

Until next time.

Your partner towards your success,

Khadijah

If you are not ok, you would not be reading my post now.  So I know that you are doing great.

Today is not going to be a long one as I am in the middle of preparing for the training that I am going to do for government’s officer on Thursday. 

Since I really want to talk to you so I am writing today and I have to make today a quick one.

Last week I did told you about a workshop that I am organising on 27th June 2009. 

Well, the workshop is still on but to a later date.  I am going to organise it on 1st August 2009 instead.  I am still going to organise it in Johor Bahru though.

The reasons that I am changing the date are:

1.  Due to short notice therefore a lot of people who want to come are not able to make it.

2. I want it to give the best information to you so that you could use it to improve your life and your children’s life, over and over again.  Therefore I need more time to ensure that everything well prepared.

The benefits that you are going to get from this workshop.

1.  You will learn a new skill that not many people know about.  The skill of determining personalities from the handwriting and the skill of grapho-therapy.  You can use these skills through-out your entire life.

2. You will see all the habits that you have that you might not realise having.  And then using this knowledge to improve and develop yourself further.  It would be easier to improve and develop something that you know rather than something that you don’t.

3. You will see with your own eyes the positive and successful habits of the successful people such as Thomas Edison through their handwriting, habits that made them successful.  And when you have this knowledge and understanding, you could implement these habits into your handwriting and your children’s handwriting that will lead you and your family to a more successful life.

4. I will personally show the basic strokes that represent the habits or personalities (positive and negative)and then teach you to write in the correct way, the positive way.  Later when you could go home, you can teach your children to write in the correct way.

5. Wouldn’t you want your children to have high self-esteem, high self-confidence, diplomatic, determine, persistence, always completing an assignment on time, honest and all the successful traits that successful people have? 

Yes?

I am going to teach you these in this workshop.

6. I will also be teaching you about understanding your children thinking process i.e. whether your children need to understand what they are learning step-by-step, through demostration or they have a very fast thinking pattern.  When you understand this you can develop the best way to teach your children so that they could use their thinking process in the best possible way.

I could talk on and on about the benefits that you will get from this workshop.

So I am inviting you to go to the workshop “Teaching Your Children to Write Like The Successful People” and experience the benefits yourself .

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So go there now and register.  The seats are limited therefore once all the seats are occupied I am going to close the offer even before the deadline date.

You will regret it if you miss this.

So register NOW!  Invest towards the your growth and your children growth.

“To be successful, you must think and act like the successful people.”  And I am giving you the chance to do just that.

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See you there.

You partner towards your success,

Khadijah

How are you today? 

I am doing fine.  Been busy marketing my workshop on 27th June 2009 among other things

Speaking of my workshop, I changed the title a bit – from “Understanding and Enhancing Your Children Capabilities Through Their Handwriting” to “Teaching Your Children To Write Like The Successful People“.

Why?

Because I want to teach you the correct way of making the strokes in the handwriting so that you could go home and teaching your children to do the same.  Additional to that you could also monitor their progress.  It is one good way to further tighten the relationship between parents and children

The contents of the workshop will be the same as the “Understanding and Enhancing Your Children Capabilities Through Their Handwriting” with one additional, I am going to teach you in details how to write the right way.

Truthfully I could make a lot of money organising a workshop to teach the children instead.  Just imagine how many children a family has?  The first time round the parents may be sending just one children to the workshop.  When the parents see the results of this workshop, they are going to send the rest of their children…

But that not what I have in mind…  I really want to make sure that all children to grow-up to be successful and also their parents.

Why am I doing this?

Because

1.  I want you to understand yourselves better (although you might say that you already know yourselves too well) so that you could make improvement wherever needed.  Even if you are already a perfect person, there is always rooms for improvement.  That is why we are call human.

2.  At the same time, you could start to understand your children better.  And teach them how to better themselves and develop themselve to be positive people.  In this modern world there are a lot of obstacles, roadblocks and challenges in the path towards success.  Therefore it is worthwhile to be positive people so that they are always optimistic and moving forward in whatever circumstances.

3.  Have a look at the handwriting sample below.  This is the handwriting sample of Thomas Edison.  I always like to use his handwriting as a sample even in my trainings.  This is because his handwriting shows a lot of success traits that he had.

Thomas Alva Edison

His handwriting shows that he got determination, high self-esteem, high goals and persistence.  There are also others positive traits but these four are the successful traits that are needed to be successful.

And do you know what is the most common traits that successful people shared?  Determination.  We need to have determination to be successful (that gives me an idea for my next article – watch out for it)

Do you want to know whether yourselves and your children have these traits?  Do you want your children to have these traits?

You have the answer…

So ifyou answer yes to the questions above, click the below to register to this workshop.

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4. Children’s personalities are still in the development stage where they like to copy people that they idolise, admire or like such as singer, friends, actor and many others.  They like to copy in terms of cloth, the way they talk or the way they walk and even the handwriting. 

Like I always said every stroke in the handwriting represent a personality.  Therefore if what they are copying is positive then it should be alright.  However if it is negative ….

So when you know about the basic of handwriting analysis and you teach this to your children, you need to monitor them.  At least every three months to see if there is any negative trait they might have copy.  If they have you would be able to teach them to change.  Unless you have forgotten what you have learn.  However if you practise, there would be no way that you would forget

I think by now you should have a general idea of why I am organising this workshop.  I always like to share the knowledge that I learned and know that will bring benefit with people.

If you want to know more about handwriting analysis and personality you could visit my website at http://www.amazingwriting.com .

Or

you could purchase my book “Secret of Making Money with Positive Personality Revealed” . This is an internet marketing plus positive personality plus handwriting analysis all in one eBook at a very low price. 

Why did I put all these together?  

Because all these are necessary for you to be successful in either online or offline business.

Plus at the moment I am still offering bonuses when you purchase the “Secret of Making Money with Positive Personality Revealed” that will help you to advance further.

Or

You could attend my workshop on 27th June 2009 – “Teaching Your Children to Write Like Successful People“

=====>>> Click here to register

Or

I could also coach your children personally if that is what you need.

Just contact me and we could have a discussion

Ok…

That’s all for today.

See you soon.

Until then.  Take care.

Your partner towards your success,

Khadijah