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		<title>Be What You Want To Be &#8230;</title>
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		<dc:creator>Khadijah Ibrahim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I first left my first 9:00  &#8211; 5:00  job to pursue my dream to become a writer, coach and trainer ; a lot of people thought that I was crazy for leaving a stable job Some of them asked me why?, there were also those who said that I was daring enough to venture into an [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I first left my first 9:00  &#8211; 5:00  job to pursue my dream to become a writer, coach and trainer ; a lot of people thought that I was crazy for leaving a stable job <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':-o' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><a title="My website" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-391" title="www.amazingwring.com" src="http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/ttt-program-250311c-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p>Some of them asked me why?, there were also those who said that I was daring enough to venture into an unknown horizon; a 180 degree different from my trained profession and there were also people who bluntly said I was not thinking straight, it was a waste of time.</p>
<p>There were times after that especially during difficult times that I too wondered whether what they said was true and whether I had made the right decision.</p>
<p>Until today, there are still people who are trying to talk me out of pursing my dream and even said that my dream is a worthless dream.  They said that my dream is not going to bring a lot of money or my dream is not going to make me a happy person or my dream is not going anywhere or what I am doing is not the best for me and they actually know what best for me :-(</p>
<p>Well, I called these people a dream killer.  They don&#8217;t actually know what they are talking about or they are a failure because they may once had a dream before and on their first or second attempts failed and after that they never tried again.  And the worst this is that they believe that if they failed in their first and second attempts, everybody else who has dreams will fail too.  What make things worst are that they suddenly thought that they are the expert on dreams and they know what best for everybody else.</p>
<p>My advice to you is that just ignore what they said and even better try to spend time or associate with them less.  Because if keeping spending your time with them, one day you may start to believe what they said, begin to think that your dream is a worthless dream and forget about it.</p>
<p>You see, the person who knows you best, the person who knows your capabilities and the person who knows what best for you beside Allah, is yourself.  Some people who are very close to you like your parents may understand your capabilities by the only person who knows you best is yourself <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>And if you believe that you can achieve your dream, you will be able to achieve it.  Of course it would be best to have the people around you especially your love ones to believe in your dream too.  It will help a lot and make things easier for you.</p>
<p>I am not saying that when you have a dream, you believe it and it would come easily to you.  I am saying that if you believe in yourself and your love ones; people around you believe it too, things would be easier.</p>
<p>Because when you have a dream, a goal; there is no straight road to achieve it.  There will always be roadblocks, challenges, detour, hurdles, many disappointments and failures before you can be successfully achieve your dream.  This is where the believes and supports of your love ones are very important.  These believes and supports can keep you moving and help you up when you fall.</p>
<p>However the believes and supports of your love ones would not be enough unless you believe in yourself and take actions to move towards your dream.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s why one of my favourite quotes is by Napoleon Hill &#8220;<em><strong>Whatever the mind conceive and believe, it can achieve.</strong></em>&#8221; <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I admit that sometimes your dream and what you believe in may not be the best for you but if you never try, take action to achieve it; you will never know whether it is the best for you or not.  In the end if you never try, you will never know and keep wondering whether your dream is what best for you.  Like Publilius Syrus said, &#8220;<em><strong>No one knows what he can do until he tries.</strong></em>&#8221;</p>
<p>So if someone comes to you and said that your dream is worthless and they know what best for you, assess their statement, weigh what they said, take the good advises and throw away the rest and move on because in the end it is your life, you are the one who knows what best for you.</p>
<p>Look at history for example Alexandra Graham Bell, Thomas Edison or even Albert Eistein; no one believed them and some may think that they were wasting their time.  However because of their believe in their dreams, their persistence and determination and also the actions that they had taken, they changed the world. </p>
<p>So believe in your dreams, be what you want to be not what others what you to be; things that will give you energy to move forward and you will be a happy person until the end of your life. </p>
<p>Logan Pearsall Smith said, <em><strong>&#8220;There are two things to aim in life: first, to get what you want and after that to enjoy it.&#8221;</strong></em></p>
<p>See you next time <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Attitude Reflects Leadership</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Sep 2011 15:12:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khadijah Ibrahim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear friends, Hope today has been a great day for you.  Hope that tomorrow, the day after tomorrow and days after that will be a great days for all of you. That is how we should face our days&#8230; with positive attitude.  Because when we are positive everything that comes our way will be positive.  It [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear friends,</p>
<p>Hope today has been a great day for you.  Hope that tomorrow, the day after tomorrow and days after that will be a great days for all of you.</p>
<p>That is how we should face our days&#8230; with positive attitude.  Because when we are positive everything that comes our way will be positive.  It is the law of attraction, alike attracts alike <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>If you start your day with hatred in your heart, negative attitude or even negative thinking; your whole day will be negative too.  Believe me&#8230; It will.  You will feel that you are a victim and the whole world is against you.</p>
<p>So start your day with a positive feeling.  Smile even if you do not feel you want to and you will make your day and others worthwhile <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>When you are positive, people who are following you will be positive too. When you are always angry, your followers or your subordinates will in the end do the same too. </p>
<p><em><strong>&#8220;People follow what they see not what they hear.&#8221;</strong></em></p>
<p>Especially if you are a leader of your organization.  Being positive is much more crucial.</p>
<p>Wait! I can hear you saying that you are not the CEO of your organization.  Well, you don&#8217;t have to be a CEO or a manager to become a leader.  A leader can emerge at any level of the organization.  A simple definition of leadership is the ability to obtain followers. </p>
<p>Therefore even if you are at the bottom level of your organization but you have followers or people who admire you then you are a leader.  And to become a good leader your need to develop good attitude.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s true that good attitudes alone may not be the asset that makes us a great leader but these good attitudes will help us reach our full potential.  These will differentiate us from those who have wrong or bad attitudes.</p>
<p>Like what Walt Emerson said <em><strong>&#8220;What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.&#8221;</strong></em></p>
<p>One of the attitudes of a good leader is listening skill.  You need to teach yourself  to listen to people&#8217;s dreams, motivations, hopes, strengths and even weaknesses.  When you listen, you need to listen with your heart not only with your ears.  Your body language must shows that you are interested to listen to their stories. With this attitude, people will know that you care and then only they will follow you.</p>
<p>One simple trait in your handwriting that shows that you are a good listener is in the letter &#8220;e&#8221;.  I am not saying that this is the only trait but as an example I am showing you the simplest.</p>
<p><a href="http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/broad-minded.bmp"><img class="size-full wp-image-378 alignleft" title="Broad mindedness" src="http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/broad-minded.bmp" alt="" /></a></p>
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<p>People who write their &#8220;e&#8221; like the above encourages others input and listen with an open mind <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>However you must also remember that other traits or attitudes you have may reduce this trait in you.  For example you may have this trait but you are also a stubborn person which will definitely reduce your good listening attitude.</p>
<p>Therefore the first step to become a good leader is, you must assess yourself, make the necessary changes for the better and people around you will follow to change for the better too.</p>
<p>Lets continue in my next post&#8230;</p>
<p>Take care and see you.</p>
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		<title>Ready, Fire and Aim</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jul 2011 21:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khadijah Ibrahim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have been wanting to write about this topic for a very, very long time.  I kept write and rewriting this article to ensure that everrything that I want to say are very clear. Why?  Because I think this quote really reflect me, reflect how I did things through out my life :-) All through my [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been wanting to write about this topic for a very, very long time.  I kept write and rewriting this article to ensure that everrything that I want to say are very clear. Why?  Because I think this quote really reflect me, reflect how I did things through out my life :-)</p>
<p>All through my life, I have been doing things in this sequence. </p>
<p>Well, let&#8217;s not talk to far into my childhood because that might bores you.  Let&#8217;s just talk about the things that I did from few years back&#8230;</p>
<p>When I first got inspired on writing a book, I just said to myself, &#8220;Hey! I want to write a book.  I got the data and information that I think is very valuable and I want to share it with others.&#8221;  So I started writing.  At that time, all I could think about was putting my book on the shelf of a bookstore.  Thinking back on that, I should have been thinking &#8220;Hey! I want to write a best selling book.&#8221;  Anyway, I have no regrets because my first book opens up a lot of new opportunities that I never thought of doing before.</p>
<p>Ok&#8230; Back to my story&#8230; When I finished writing my book, only then I thought of how to get my book printed and out on the bookshelf.  So I thought of finding a publisher.  It was not an easy thing to do.  It took a lot of determination and persistence from a person who didn&#8217;t have a slightest idea about publishing.  I had been rejected by so many publisher that in the end I almost got discourage.  During this time I took things one step at a time.  What I did was, I kept telling myself, &#8220;One more publisher today.  If I didn&#8217;t get this one, I&#8217;ll stop.&#8221;  But alhamdulillah, I never stopped. Until finally on on fine morning I got a reply from the publisher.</p>
<p>And that was the beginning of my first book, &#8221;<a title="The basic of handwriting analysis" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/tulisan_cerminan_personaliti_diri.htm" target="_blank">Tulisan Cerminan Personaliti Diri</a>&#8221;</p>
<div id="attachment_364" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a title="Handwriting Reveals Personality" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/tulisan_cerminan_personaliti_diri.htm" target="_blank"><img class="size-medium wp-image-364" title="Picture5" src="http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Picture5-300x223.jpg" alt="My First Book" width="300" height="223" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">My First book</p></div>
<p>It may not be a world best selling book yet but I am very proud of it.  My first attempt <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  I am still learning from this experience and I realise that I could do better.  And I am in the midst of writing a new book much better than this <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Like I said earlier, by writing this book, it opens up a lot of new opportunities for me.  Before this I never thought of becoming a coach that shares information with other people through seminars, programs and talks.  I was actually terrified of talking in front of people especially big groups of people <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_surprised.gif' alt=':-o' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>However I learned and still am learning.  And now I am doing things that I never thought I would love.  One of it is sharing knowledge and value add to others through my programs, seminars and talks <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<div id="attachment_365" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a title="Lets share knowledge" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/trainings.htm" target="_blank"><img class="size-medium wp-image-365 " title="Knowledge Sharing With Master Students in UiTM" src="http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/editable-300x194.jpg" alt="Talks about Handwriting Analysis" width="300" height="194" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Knowledge Sharing with Master Students in UiTM</p></div>
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<p>Now I just love doing this knowledge sharing events <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Though I have to admit I still have stage frights at the beginning of each programs but in the end these are the things that give me energy and drive to move forward.</p>
<p>Finally, I found the reason why to I was put on this earth; to share information and value add to others.</p>
<p>I still have a lot of things to share about Ready, Fire, Aims but I think we will continue that in my next post.</p>
<p>But one thing you have to remember, if you know you are doing the right thing then just do it.  A lot of people know that they are ready but keep aiming to ensure that they get the right target and in the end they never actually fire.  If you never fire you will never know whether your target is right or not and you will never have a chance to correct your aim.</p>
<p>See you next time.</p>
<p>Take care.</p>
<p>Khadijah</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jun 2010 16:53:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear all, Hope you are doing well.  It has been a busy month and finally today I have the opportunity to write. Before I write further, I want to ask you a question.  What is success to you? Is success means making millions of dollars? Is success means becoming rich? Is success means owning multi-millions [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear all,</p>
<p>Hope you are doing well. </p>
<p>It has been a busy month and finally today I have the opportunity to write.</p>
<p>Before I write further, I want to ask you a question.  What is success to you?</p>
<p>Is success means making millions of dollars?</p>
<p>Is success means becoming rich?</p>
<p>Is success means owning multi-millions businesses?</p>
<p>Is success means raising healthy and happy children?</p>
<p>Is success means that you have a successful career?</p>
<p>Or is success means that you are happy with what you are doing and are happy with your life?</p>
<p>In my opinion different people would have different opinion about success.  Some people would consider themselves as successful when they earn millions of dollars or have their own successful businesses.  Some people would consider themselves as successful when their children are happy and successful themselves while others consider themselves as successful when they are able to help as many people as they can.</p>
<p>So you see&#8230; Different people have different definition on success and there is no right and wrong answers.</p>
<p>What&#8217;s may seems successful to me, may not seem successful to you and vice versa.</p>
<p>However whatever definition and opinion you have about success, one thing that we have in common is that when you and I want to achieve whatever success we want; we need to work for it.</p>
<p>We need to have determination, persistance, believe in ourselves and overcome any challenges and obstacles until we achieve the success that we have been dreaming about.  We need to be focus and not let our eyes off our goals until the day we successfully achieve it.</p>
<p>Therefore no matter whats success means to you, you have to do all you can to achieve that success.</p>
<p>Like what Vince Lombardi said, &#8220;<em><strong>The price of success is hard work, dedication to the job at hand and the determination that whether we win or lose, we have applied the best of ourselves to the task at hand.&#8221;</strong></em></p>
<p>Recently I had the opportunity to attend a seminar in Singapore where I met people from all over the world and most of them are people from all around Asia. </p>
<p style="text-align: center;">
<div id="attachment_346" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/singapore-edit.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-346  " title="Trip to Singapore" src="http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/singapore-edit-300x200.jpg" alt="Team" width="300" height="200" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">My new friends from all over the world</p></div>
<p>These people are successful in their own ways.  Some of them are successful parents, directors, managers, trainers, sales persons, husbands and even wifes.  All of them are working their very best in the things that they believe in and are good at what they are doing.</p>
<p>All of them have a number of things in common:</p>
<p>1.  Believe in themselves.</p>
<p>2. Determination.</p>
<p>3. Persistence.</p>
<p>4. Doing the best that they can.</p>
<p>5. Good heart.</p>
<p>And they all come from different part of this world.</p>
<p>So you see, you can be anywhere in this world but when you want to be successful, you will need to have the same attitude as anyone in any part of the world that already are successful.</p>
<p>If you need help in building you online business, visit:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com">http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com</a></p>
<p>or if you want to understand more about yourselves and develop successful attitude or habits, visit:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.amazingwriting.com">http://www.amazingwriting.com</a></p>
<p>Talk to you soon.</p>
<p>Until then&#8230; take care.</p>
<p>Khadijah</p>
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		<title>Building Success By Taking Action Now</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 14:19:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khadijah Ibrahim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear all, My last post was on 8th February 2010 and it had been almost 3 weeks before I got the chance to write something today I had been travelling these past few weeks and I am going to travel again tomorrow. I must start to think about having a team as what I discussed [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear all,</p>
<p>My last post was on 8th February 2010 and it had been almost 3 weeks before I got the chance to write something today <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':-(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I had been travelling these past few weeks and I am going to travel again tomorrow.</p>
<p>I must start to think about having a team as what I discussed before :-0</p>
<p>Well, the truth is I already started to form some kind of mastermind group.  These people are the one promoting my trainings now.  So currently I am leaving to these people to do what they are good at&#8230; doing marketing and I doing what I am good at, talking to people, do presentations and inspiring people <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>So the next thing I need to think about is having a team for my internet marketing&#8230;</p>
<p>You see when you surround yourself with experts, people who are good at what they are doing; your life becomes easier and you will start achieving what you want to achieve.</p>
<p>Because nobody is actually good at doing everything themselves.  It&#8217;s good to know what you want others to do for you but doing the real job, you got to leave it to the experts.</p>
<p>All successful people had some kind of mastermind group.  It does not have to be a big group; two people can also form a mastermind group.  So it is not that difficult&#8230;isn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p>So take the actions now!  If you need to form a group to help you be successful then do it, what are you waiting for.  But one thing you must remember is that if you want people to help you be successful, you must also be ready to help these people be successful too.   So that everyone can become successful <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>So if you want to be successful start taking actions.  Do what you already plan to do; don&#8217;t just stop at planning stage ok, keep moving.  There will be a lot of obstacles and challenges of course but never ever give-up.</p>
<p>And remember I am here to help you <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>By the way click the below if you want to learn more about successful personality and making money online.</p>
<p><a title="My digital product" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">===&gt; 15 Secrets of Making Money with Positive Personality Revealed.</a></p>
<p>If you need eBooks for your online business click below:</p>
<p><a title="John Thornhill's Product" href="http://analyst08.planetsms.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_blank">===&gt; eBooks business</a></p>
<p><a title="free resell rights" href="http://resell-rights-weekly.com/members/?rid=3800" target="_blank">or here for free free resell rights  </a> <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Ok&#8230; I think that&#8217;s it for today.  I need to pack now.</p>
<p>See you soon <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Your partner towards your success,</p>
<p>Khadijah</p>
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		<title>Building Success and Facing Challenges</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 02:57:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khadijah Ibrahim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[People came to me and said that they faced with a lot of challenges and roadblocks in trying to achieve their dreams.  Some of them being rejected from the jobs they applied to, people didn&#8217;t want to buy products that they sell, their contracts had been cancelled, partnerships that didn&#8217;t go well, being cheated, the death of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>People came to me and said that they faced with a lot of challenges and roadblocks in trying to achieve their dreams.  Some of them being rejected from the jobs they applied to, people didn&#8217;t want to buy products that they sell, their contracts had been cancelled, partnerships that didn&#8217;t go well, being cheated, the death of the love ones who supported them, and many, many more.</p>
<p>Some of them even wanted to give-up or already given up and there are many of them who become discourage.  A lot of them that came to me and said &#8220;My dreams are worthless, there is no point to carry on.&#8221; or &#8220;Life is not fair, why everybody else find an easy way while I have to go through a hard way.&#8221;</p>
<p>Well, the truth is achieving dreams is never an easy path.  There will always be obstacles, challenges and roadblocks.  Because if the path you are going through is so easy it may not be a dream that is worth pursuing. </p>
<p>Why???</p>
<p>Because these obstacles, challenges and roadblocks are the things that make us grow.  These are the things that that teach us about life, teach us to be someone better.  These are the things that remind us of our roots, where we come from when we are at the top.  These are the things that remind us to help others to be at the top with us.  These are the things that give us strengths even when we are already successful because there are always challenges even when we are already at the top.</p>
<p>There is a saying that goes, &#8220;Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength.&#8221; &#8211; Mathama Gandhi.</p>
<p>So to those who came to me and said that they are giving up because they encounter with to many rejections, they are fed-up being rejected,  what I say is, &#8220;Reject rejection.&#8221;  Think of it this way, there must be a good reason why it happens.  Maybe the boss is not as good as you see him externally, maybe the job is not the best as it seems to be, maybe you are going to create a better product that will make your a millionaire because of these rejections or maybe this is the turning point for you to take better steps. </p>
<p>And remember this, when the time comes that something that you want, will want you.  So never ever give-up.</p>
<p>Someday you will build success.</p>
<p>If you want me to talk more about building success here or to your event or to your people, you can contact me here or through my email at <a href="mailto:kinetic_0102@yahoo.com">kinetic_0102@yahoo.com</a> or any of my other emails.</p>
<p>If you want to start building online success and building positive personality, visit this link:</p>
<p>===&gt; <a title="Building positive personality" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">15 Secrets of Making Money with Positive Personality Revealed</a></p>
<p>or you want eBooks for your business, visit here:</p>
<p>===&gt; <a title="John Thornhill's Product" href="http://analyst08.planetsms.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_blank">Ebooks Businesses</a></p>
<p>Till next time, take good care of yourself and stay positive.</p>
<p>Your partner towards your success,</p>
<p>Khadijah</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 07:49:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khadijah Ibrahim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi! All, How are you today?  Hope that you are happy Last week I was in Singapore for 3 days attending a seminar.  It was a very intensive seminar where it started at 9:00 a.m. and ended at 11:00 p.m. Wow! I was so exhausted!  Though it had been a tiring three days&#8230;  It had [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi! All,</p>
<p>How are you today?  Hope that you are happy <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Last week I was in Singapore for 3 days attending a seminar.  It was a very intensive seminar where it started at 9:00 a.m. and ended at 11:00 p.m.</p>
<p>Wow! I was so exhausted! </p>
<p>Though it had been a tiring three days&#8230;  It had been a very informative three days and I met a lot of new friends.  Some of them are establish trainers, best selling authors, business men, managers, students and even millionaires <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>In the 3 days, I had conversations with quite a number of people.   During these conversations I found there were a lot of different opinions.  For example, some of them did find these three days seminar a waste of time and money as although there had been a lot of information given; there were also a lot of promotional for the organizer&#8217;s other products.  I had to agree with that, I even able to identify when the promotional begun and at what time :-0</p>
<p>There were also people who said that there were too many dancing and clapping instead of information.</p>
<p>There were also people who said that they learned a lot in these three days seminar and able to get great bargains in purchasing other of the organizer&#8217;s products.</p>
<p>There are even people who found their soulmate during these three days <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>You see what I am trying to say? Same place, same environment, same time, same situation but different acceptance.</p>
<p>All these people were sitting in the same convention center, at the same time, listening and seeing the same thing.  However each and everyone of them accepted what had been delivered differently and formed their own opinions. Some liked it and some don&#8217;t.</p>
<p>It is the same with our goals.  Most of us have the same goals such as becoming successful in our career, make a lot of money, become a millionaire, become financially abundance, famous etc.</p>
<p>However not all of us are achieving our goals. Some people are only dreaming of these goals and these goals become dreams that never become realities.</p>
<p>Why do these happen?  Because</p>
<p>1. Don&#8217;t know what to do to achieve the goals</p>
<p>2. Never take any actions</p>
<p>3. Give-up when encounter with challenges</p>
<p>4. Not determine enough to achieve the goals set</p>
<p>5. Fear of failure</p>
<p>6. Fear of too much work</p>
<p>7. And many more other excuses&#8230;</p>
<p>These are some of the excuses that separate losers from achievers.</p>
<p>Achievers do not give excuses why they could not achieve their goals, they give excuses of why they will achieve their goals.  If the achievers see that what they are doing are not moving them towards their goals, instead of complaining and giving excuses; they find different ways to make things work.  They also keep saying positive things to motivate themselves to move forward.</p>
<p>So which groups are you in?  Only you have the answer <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>So I leave you today with that question.</p>
<p>And if your answer is you are an achiever but you don&#8217;t know what to do.  Contact me, I will help you get started.</p>
<p>By the way, my product &#8220;<a title="my product that can help you" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">15 secrets of Making Money with Positive Personality Revealed</a>&#8221; can help you get started.</p>
<p>In there, I show you how to get started and how to develop positive personality that will support you in achieving your goals.</p>
<p>Until next time.</p>
<p>Your partner towards your success,</p>
<p>Khadijah</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 07:45:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khadijah Ibrahim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi!  I am glad that you are doing ok If you are not ok, you would not be reading my post now.  So I know that you are doing great. Today is not going to be a long one as I am in the middle of preparing for the training that I am going to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi!  I am glad that you are doing ok <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>If you are not ok, you would not be reading my post now.  So I know that you are doing great.</p>
<p>Today is not going to be a long one as I am in the middle of preparing for the training that I am going to do for government&#8217;s officer on Thursday. </p>
<p>Since I really want to talk to you so I am writing today and I have to make today a quick one.</p>
<p>Last week I did told you about a workshop that I am organising on 27th June 2009. </p>
<p>Well, the workshop is still on but to a later date.  I am going to organise it on 1st August 2009 instead.  I am still going to organise it in Johor Bahru though.</p>
<p>The reasons that I am changing the date are:</p>
<p>1.  Due to short notice therefore a lot of people who want to come are not able to make it.</p>
<p>2. I want it to give the best information to you so that you could use it to improve your life and your children&#8217;s life, over and over again.  Therefore I need more time to ensure that everything well prepared.</p>
<p>The benefits that you are going to get from this workshop.</p>
<p>1.  You will learn a new skill that not many people know about.  The skill of determining personalities from the handwriting and the skill of grapho-therapy.  You can use these skills through-out your entire life.</p>
<p>2. You will see all the habits that you have that you might not realise having.  And then using this knowledge to improve and develop yourself further.  It would be easier to improve and develop something that you know rather than something that you don&#8217;t.</p>
<p>3. You will see with your own eyes the positive and successful habits of the successful people such as Thomas Edison through their handwriting, habits that made them successful.  And when you have this knowledge and understanding, you could implement these habits into your handwriting and your children&#8217;s handwriting that will lead you and your family to a more successful life.</p>
<p>4. I will personally show the basic strokes that represent the habits or personalities (positive and negative)and then teach you to write in the correct way, the positive way.  Later when you could go home, you can teach your children to write in the correct way.</p>
<p>5. Wouldn&#8217;t you want your children to have high self-esteem, high self-confidence, diplomatic, determine, persistence, always completing an assignment on time, honest and all the successful traits that successful people have? </p>
<p>Yes?</p>
<p>I am going to teach you these in this workshop.</p>
<p>6. I will also be teaching you about understanding your children thinking process i.e. whether your children need to understand what they are learning step-by-step, through demostration or they have a very fast thinking pattern.  When you understand this you can develop the best way to teach your children so that they could use their thinking process in the best possible way.</p>
<p>I could talk on and on about the benefits that you will get from this workshop.</p>
<p>So I am inviting you to go to the workshop &#8220;<a title="Workshop designed for parents" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/seminar1_parent.html" target="_blank">Teaching Your Children to Write Like The Successful People</a>&#8221; and experience the benefits yourself .</p>
<p><a title="Workshop for parents" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/seminar1_parent.html" target="_blank">=====&gt; Visit here to goto the page</a></p>
<p>So go there now and register.  The seats are limited therefore once all the seats are occupied I am going to close the offer even before the deadline date.</p>
<p>You will regret it if you miss this.</p>
<p>So register NOW!  Invest towards the your growth and your children growth.</p>
<p>&#8220;To be successful, you must think and act like the successful people.&#8221;  And I am giving you the chance to do just that.</p>
<p><a title="Workshop designed for parents" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/seminar1_parent.html" target="_blank">=====&gt; Click here to make the difference in your children&#8217;s life</a></p>
<p>See you there.</p>
<p>You partner towards your success,</p>
<p>Khadijah</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 16:03:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Khadijah Ibrahim</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi!</p>
<p>How are you today? </p>
<p>I am doing fine.  Been busy marketing my workshop on 27th June 2009 among other things <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Speaking of my workshop, I changed the title a bit &#8211; from &#8220;<a title="My basic handwriting analysis workshop" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/seminar_parent.html" target="_blank">Understanding and Enhancing Your Children Capabilities Through Their Handwriting</a>&#8221; to &#8220;<a title="My basic handwriting analysis workshop" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/seminar1_parent.html" target="_blank">Teaching Your Children To Write Like The Successful People</a>&#8220;.</p>
<p>Why?</p>
<p>Because I want to teach you the correct way of making the strokes in the handwriting so that you could go home and teaching your children to do the same.  Additional to that you could also monitor their progress.  It is one good way to further tighten the relationship between parents and children <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>The contents of the workshop will be the same as the &#8220;<a title="My handwriting analysis website" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com" target="_blank">Understanding and Enhancing Your Children Capabilities Through Their Handwriting</a>&#8221; with one additional, I am going to teach you in details how to write the right way.</p>
<p>Truthfully I could make a lot of money organising a workshop to teach the children instead.  Just imagine how many children a family has?  The first time round the parents may be sending just one children to the workshop.  When the parents see the results of this workshop, they are going to send the rest of their children&#8230;</p>
<p>But that not what I have in mind&#8230;  I really want to make sure that all children to grow-up to be successful and also their parents.</p>
<p>Why am I doing this?</p>
<p>Because</p>
<p>1.  I want you to understand yourselves better (although you might say that you already know yourselves too well) <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  so that you could make improvement wherever needed.  Even if you are already a perfect person, there is always rooms for improvement.  That is why we are call human.</p>
<p>2.  At the same time, you could start to understand your children better.  And teach them how to better themselves and develop themselve to be positive people.  In this modern world there are a lot of obstacles, roadblocks and challenges in the path towards success.  Therefore it is worthwhile to be positive people so that they are always optimistic and moving forward in whatever circumstances.</p>
<p>3.  Have a look at the handwriting sample below.  This is the handwriting sample of Thomas Edison.  I always like to use his handwriting as a sample even in my trainings.  This is because his handwriting shows a lot of success traits that he had.</p>
<div id="attachment_250" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 327px"><a href="http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/picture4.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-250 " title="Thomas Alva Edison" src="http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/picture4.jpg" alt="" width="317" height="223" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Thomas Alva Edison</p></div>
<p style="text-align: left;">His handwriting shows that he got determination, high self-esteem, high goals and persistence.  There are also others positive traits but these four are the successful traits that are needed to be successful.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">And do you know what is the most common traits that successful people shared?  Determination.  We need to have determination to be successful (that gives me an idea for my next article &#8211; watch out for it) <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Do you want to know whether yourselves and your children have these traits?  Do you want your children to have these traits?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">You have the answer&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">So ifyou answer yes to the questions above, click the below to register to this workshop.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">====&gt;&gt;&gt; <a title="My basic handwriting analysis workshop" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/seminar1_parent.html" target="_blank">Click here to find out more about the workshop and register</a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">4. Children&#8217;s personalities are still in the development stage where they like to copy people that they idolise, admire or like such as singer, friends, actor and many others.  They like to copy in terms of cloth, the way they talk or the way they walk and even the handwriting. </p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Like I always said every stroke in the handwriting represent a personality.  Therefore if what they are copying is positive then it should be alright.  However if it is negative &#8230;.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">So when you know about the basic of handwriting analysis and you teach this to your children, you need to monitor them.  At least every three months to see if there is any negative trait they might have copy.  If they have you would be able to teach them to change.  Unless you have forgotten what you have learn.  However if you practise, there would be no way that you would forget <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I think by now you should have a general idea of why I am organising this workshop.  I always like to share the knowledge that I learned and know that will bring benefit with people.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">If you want to know more about handwriting analysis and personality you could visit my website at <a title="My handwriting analysis website" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com" target="_blank">http://www.amazingwriting.com</a> .</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Or</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">you could purchase my book &#8220;<a title="My eBook" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">Secret of Making Money with Positive Personality Revealed</a>&#8221; . This is an internet marketing plus positive personality plus handwriting analysis all in one eBook at a very low price. </p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Why did I put all these together?  </p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Because all these are necessary for you to be successful in either online or offline business.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Plus at the moment I am still offering bonuses when you purchase the &#8220;<a title="My eBook" href="http://www.makemoneywithpersonality.com" target="_blank">Secret of Making Money with Positive Personality Revealed</a>&#8221; that will help you to advance further.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Or</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">You could attend my workshop on 27th June 2009 &#8211; &#8220;<a title="My basic handwriting analysis workshop" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/seminar1_parent.html" target="_blank">Teaching Your Children to Write Like Successful People</a>&#8220;</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">=====&gt;&gt;&gt; <a title="My basic handwriting analysis workshop" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/seminar1_parent.html" target="_blank">Click here to register</a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Or</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I could also coach your children personally if that is what you need.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Just contact me and we could have a discussion <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Ok&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">That&#8217;s all for today.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">See you soon.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Until then.  Take care.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Your partner towards your success,</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Khadijah</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi! All, Hope you all are doing fine It has been more than a week since I last wrote. The reason is that I was busy updating my website at http://www.amazingwriting.com .  Go there, there are a lot of new information added about handwriting analysis that are useful to you.  I am confident about that I was [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi! All,</p>
<p>Hope you all are doing fine <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>It has been more than a week since I last wrote.</p>
<p>The reason is that I was busy updating my website at <a title="my website about handwriting analysis" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com" target="_blank">http://www.amazingwriting.com</a> .  Go there, there are a lot of new information added about handwriting analysis that are useful to you.  I am confident about that <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I was also busy designing a basic of handwriting analysis workshop specifically for parents and added that into my website.  Goto <a title="My workshop" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/seminar_parent.html" target="_blank">http://www.amazingwriting.com/seminar_parent.html</a> to find out more about this workshop.</p>
<p>Why am I organising this workshop?</p>
<p>Well, I am not a parent yet but I have a lot of nieces and nephews therefore I understand what you parents are going through.</p>
<p>These are some of the situations that you might encounter&#8230;.</p>
<p>Your children do not want to listem to what you said however when it comes to their friends, they would do anything for their friends.</p>
<p>You do not understand why is it so difficult for your children to understand a simple maths problem and yet they could build the aeroplane model you bought them.</p>
<p>You find that your children are very bright and yet their class teachers keep complaining that they are the one who creates problems in class.</p>
<p>You sense that your children are having problems however you do not know how to talk to them as when you asked; they said, &#8220;No problem.&#8221;</p>
<p>You are worried about your daughter dating a guy that your gut feeling couldn&#8217;t trust and yet you do not have a way to prove this.</p>
<p>And there are much more&#8230;.</p>
<p>Well, you are good parents.  You are always worried about your children.  You want the best for your children and yet you respect them as a human being.  You want to help them make the right decision and yet you want them to be able to survive on their own.</p>
<p>Everybody could see that&#8230;  That&#8217;s why I said you are good parents.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s why I am going to share with you a way to develop your children. You are going to understand your children better, from a different angle, your children will respect you for that, you improve your relationships with them and you will even develop yourself to be a better person during this process.</p>
<p>And how am I going to do that?  Through their handwriting <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Let&#8217;s take a simple example so that you would understand.</p>
<p>Your son doesn&#8217;t understand the math problems that you are teaching him.  To you the problems are so simple and yet you son couldn&#8217;t get it.  You repeat on the solution so many times and yet he still couldn&#8217;t understand.  In the end, he lose his interest, set in his mind that maths are not for him and you get frustrated.</p>
<p>However when you analyse his handwriting, you find that his thinking pattern is to learn things step-by-step.  He needs to learn starting from page one, go to page two and so on&#8230;  He could not miss a step or he would not understand at all.  He would understand things better if he could do it himself instead of just standing there looking at other people do it. </p>
<p>However once he understands the problem or the subject, he could remember it for a very long time and would be able to build other things from this understanding.</p>
<p>Additional to this, his handwriting shows that he doesn&#8217;t believe in himself.  He doesn&#8217;t believe that he is capable of doing things.  Therefore when he does not understand things or people are pushing him to move forward fast, his mind just goes blank.</p>
<p>Once you understand your son personality, you would be able to help your son.</p>
<p>The first thing you need to do to make him understand his maths problems is to go to the chapter where your son begins to not understand the subject.  From there you can begin to teach him step-by-step on the subject.  Once he begins to understand, let him practise on his own so that he would understand the subject much better.  Once he understand, you could let him, build his own method of learning so that it would be easier for him to learn the related subject.</p>
<p>You could also meet with his teacher, explain and find the best solution so that both of you could help him.</p>
<p>You also need to talk in a positive way to your son to increase his self-esteem. </p>
<p>There had been researches done to show that one of the reason why people have low self-esteem is due to the people i.e. family members when they were a child kept using negative words to communicate. </p>
<p>What are the negative words?  &#8220;You could not have everything you want&#8221; ,&#8221;Why are you so stupid?&#8221;. &#8220;You are so slow!&#8221;, &#8220;This is so simple, why can&#8217;t you get it.&#8221; and many other words.</p>
<p>Sometimes these words were being said by people who love them the most.  They were saying these not because they didn&#8217;t love their children but because they loved them.  They thought they were doing the right thing as they didn&#8217;t want their children to get hurt or they tried to motivate children to become better persons. However they didn&#8217;t realise that if these words are used too often, they would become a poison to ones mind and this is one of the reason why the children&#8217;s self-esteem reduced.  These words become more fatal if you could find sensitive to criticism and self-catisgation traits in the handwriting. </p>
<p>In the end when the childre grew-up, they would not believe that they have the capabilities to achieve things.</p>
<p>Therefore you should start to use positive words when communicating to your son especially when you want to motivate him.</p>
<p>I hope that by now you have some understanding of how handwriting analysis could help you as parents to help your children.</p>
<p>You could contact me if you want to learn more.</p>
<p>Or better yet attend my workshop <a title="My workshop" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/seminar_parent.html" target="_blank">&#8220;Understand and Enhancing Your Children Capabilities Through Their Handwriting&#8221;</a> on 27th June 2009.</p>
<p>To find out more about the seminar, click here ==&gt;&gt;&gt; <a title="My workshop" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/seminar_parent.html" target="_blank">Understanding and Enhancing Your Children Capabilites Through Their Handwriting</a></p>
<p>You could also find out more information of how handwriting analysis could assist you as parents and teachers by clicking here</p>
<p>===&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt; <a title="my website about handwriting analysis" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/parent.html" target="_blank">How handwriting analysis could help you</a></p>
<p>Remember my workshop will be on 27th June 2009.  This will be one and only done this year, if you miss it you have to wait until who knows when the next one will be. </p>
<p>I know you will be glad that you attend this workshop.</p>
<p>You are going to learn a lot from this workshop, the secret of your children&#8217;s handwriting and even yours <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>After learning this knowledge, would be able to understand yourself better, your spouse, your children (especially), improve your family relationships, help your children become better people, help them achieve their dreams and be successful in everything they do plus the knowledge will help you too.</p>
<p>So remember to sign-up.  There&#8217;s a discount if you sign-up early.</p>
<p>So go here ===&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;<a title="My workshop" href="http://www.amazingwriting.com/seminar_parent.html" target="_blank"> &#8220;Understanding and Enhancing Your Children&#8217;s Capabilities Through Their Handwriting&#8221;</a> and register</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll see you next time and at the workshop.</p>
<p>Your partner towards you success,</p>
<p>Khadijah <img src='http://khadijah-ibrahim.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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