Khadijah's Blog

Hi! All,

Hope you all are doing fine

It has been more than a week since I last wrote.

The reason is that I was busy updating my website at http://www.amazingwriting.com .  Go there, there are a lot of new information added about handwriting analysis that are useful to you.  I am confident about that

I was also busy designing a basic of handwriting analysis workshop specifically for parents and added that into my website.  Goto http://www.amazingwriting.com/seminar_parent.html to find out more about this workshop.

Why am I organising this workshop?

Well, I am not a parent yet but I have a lot of nieces and nephews therefore I understand what you parents are going through.

These are some of the situations that you might encounter….

Your children do not want to listem to what you said however when it comes to their friends, they would do anything for their friends.

You do not understand why is it so difficult for your children to understand a simple maths problem and yet they could build the aeroplane model you bought them.

You find that your children are very bright and yet their class teachers keep complaining that they are the one who creates problems in class.

You sense that your children are having problems however you do not know how to talk to them as when you asked; they said, “No problem.”

You are worried about your daughter dating a guy that your gut feeling couldn’t trust and yet you do not have a way to prove this.

And there are much more….

Well, you are good parents.  You are always worried about your children.  You want the best for your children and yet you respect them as a human being.  You want to help them make the right decision and yet you want them to be able to survive on their own.

Everybody could see that…  That’s why I said you are good parents.

That’s why I am going to share with you a way to develop your children. You are going to understand your children better, from a different angle, your children will respect you for that, you improve your relationships with them and you will even develop yourself to be a better person during this process.

And how am I going to do that?  Through their handwriting

Let’s take a simple example so that you would understand.

Your son doesn’t understand the math problems that you are teaching him.  To you the problems are so simple and yet you son couldn’t get it.  You repeat on the solution so many times and yet he still couldn’t understand.  In the end, he lose his interest, set in his mind that maths are not for him and you get frustrated.

However when you analyse his handwriting, you find that his thinking pattern is to learn things step-by-step.  He needs to learn starting from page one, go to page two and so on…  He could not miss a step or he would not understand at all.  He would understand things better if he could do it himself instead of just standing there looking at other people do it. 

However once he understands the problem or the subject, he could remember it for a very long time and would be able to build other things from this understanding.

Additional to this, his handwriting shows that he doesn’t believe in himself.  He doesn’t believe that he is capable of doing things.  Therefore when he does not understand things or people are pushing him to move forward fast, his mind just goes blank.

Once you understand your son personality, you would be able to help your son.

The first thing you need to do to make him understand his maths problems is to go to the chapter where your son begins to not understand the subject.  From there you can begin to teach him step-by-step on the subject.  Once he begins to understand, let him practise on his own so that he would understand the subject much better.  Once he understand, you could let him, build his own method of learning so that it would be easier for him to learn the related subject.

You could also meet with his teacher, explain and find the best solution so that both of you could help him.

You also need to talk in a positive way to your son to increase his self-esteem. 

There had been researches done to show that one of the reason why people have low self-esteem is due to the people i.e. family members when they were a child kept using negative words to communicate. 

What are the negative words?  “You could not have everything you want” ,”Why are you so stupid?”. “You are so slow!”, “This is so simple, why can’t you get it.” and many other words.

Sometimes these words were being said by people who love them the most.  They were saying these not because they didn’t love their children but because they loved them.  They thought they were doing the right thing as they didn’t want their children to get hurt or they tried to motivate children to become better persons. However they didn’t realise that if these words are used too often, they would become a poison to ones mind and this is one of the reason why the children’s self-esteem reduced.  These words become more fatal if you could find sensitive to criticism and self-catisgation traits in the handwriting. 

In the end when the childre grew-up, they would not believe that they have the capabilities to achieve things.

Therefore you should start to use positive words when communicating to your son especially when you want to motivate him.

I hope that by now you have some understanding of how handwriting analysis could help you as parents to help your children.

You could contact me if you want to learn more.

Or better yet attend my workshop “Understand and Enhancing Your Children Capabilities Through Their Handwriting” on 27th June 2009.

To find out more about the seminar, click here ==>>> Understanding and Enhancing Your Children Capabilites Through Their Handwriting

You could also find out more information of how handwriting analysis could assist you as parents and teachers by clicking here

===>>>> How handwriting analysis could help you

Remember my workshop will be on 27th June 2009.  This will be one and only done this year, if you miss it you have to wait until who knows when the next one will be. 

I know you will be glad that you attend this workshop.

You are going to learn a lot from this workshop, the secret of your children’s handwriting and even yours

After learning this knowledge, would be able to understand yourself better, your spouse, your children (especially), improve your family relationships, help your children become better people, help them achieve their dreams and be successful in everything they do plus the knowledge will help you too.

So remember to sign-up.  There’s a discount if you sign-up early.

So go here ===>>>>> “Understanding and Enhancing Your Children’s Capabilities Through Their Handwriting” and register

I’ll see you next time and at the workshop.

Your partner towards you success,

Khadijah